7 Wise Ways to Deal with a Persistent Ex ...

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How to deal with an ex can be an issue that presents us with a lot of problems when that ex refuses to accept their changed status in your life. Even if they´re not actually reaching the level of being a stalker, it´s thoroughly annoying when they constantly call you or try to rekindle the relationship. So what can you do to deal with an ex who won´t let you go? Here are some helpful hints on how to handle a persistent ex …

1. Never Justify

If you are quite certain that the relationship is over, then make that clear to them.2

It´s okay to tell them why, but don´t, however, be forced into justifying your decision.

If you let them manipulate you into a discussion, they´ll try to counter your reasons by coming up with an answer to ´solve´ the problems.

So be firm and simply insist that it´s over

Cut Contact

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Anonymous
I have and now the guy that I have started talking to has one....They are annoying as all get out and I wish I could just slap some sense into them both.
Alex Marsh's ex gf
Thanks. This is really good and so so true. i broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and then in November he saw me with some guy friends in town and then came up to me. I thought it wasn't very polite and ignored him for a few seconds until he came and hugged me around the waist. This was all after an email which said that he saw me at my bus stop every morning and though of me all the time. It was ridiculous and I have only just managed to send him a very clear message which said that i didn'tn want to be with him. Quite funny and my guy friends always laugh about it!
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