8 Amazingly Effective Tips on How to Be a Total Guy Magnet ...

By Jordin • Nov 29, 2011

How To Be A Man Magnet in today's world isn't as unachievable as you might initially think! Knowing how to be a man magnet and then applying the tips are two completely different things. You'd be surprised at the number of women out there who know how to be a man magnet and don't even realize it! I'm going to give you a few tips on how to be a man magnet-and chances are, you probably already know most of these tips-BUT you just need to start applying them! With my help, you'll know how to be a man magnet that every girl will envy!

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1. Don't Look for a Man

Heading out with the girls on saturday night with the intention of picking up a man or looking for your future husband is a huge red sign on your forehead reading "Desperate". Sit back and let him do the work! Your man will find you in good time. Go out for a good time for once, and men will pick up on that, and pick YOU up!

2. Don't Trash Talk

Trash-talking other women is one sure-fire way to bash your chances with any man. Knowing how to be a man magnet means knowing that men don't want a cat, they want a sweet lady. By cat, I mean a woman who behaves rather like a cat. Keep your words towards and about others nice, and I guarantee your relationship will stay nice too!

3. Be Easy-going

This is one of my best tips on how to be a man magnet. Most men don't go for women who are uptight, and high maintenance. Instead, try to be more relaxed and laid-back about things. If your plans don't go according to schedule, don't freak! Instead, smile and adjust accordingly. You'll find that this is one great way to be a man magnet!

4. Dress for HIM

I love this tip on how to be man magnet! Most women dress to impress, and thats ok! But ask yourself WHO you are dressing to impress? Your man or everyone else? If he prefers to see you in jeans and a tee, then make sure that's your go-to outfit and save the LBD for a cocktail party.

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5. Get Busy

All right, all right, I can see the eyes rolling now! If you want to know how to be a man magnet, you need to get busy. By get busy, I mean fill your schedule up. A woman who is genuinely happy with her life, and fills her calendar with lots of activities will appear, and ultimately BE more satisfied. This is obvious to men who would be interested, and they don't get the feeling that you would be "desperate" or "Clingy" to them.

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6. Don't Hog the Spotlight

You've heard it said before, now I'll say it again. If you want to know a great tip on how to be a man magnet, remember not to talk about yourself the entire time you spend around him. Of course you are important and your accomplishments are impressive-but then so is he. Men like to talk about themselves, so ask about his day, his life, his goals. He will notice that you are taking a genuine interest in him and love it!

7. Be Subtle

Sometimes the major key in knowing how to be a man magnet lies within one simple action: Being Subtle. Sounds strange, but it's true. Don't be so hardcore and loud about everything. A loud woman will be noticed right away, but the woman who stands out is the woman who lets her personality speak for itself. Its good to be passionate, but remember that being subtle is key to almost everything.

8. Be the Person You Want to Date

Want to know the REAL scoop behind being a man magnet? Be the person YOU would want to date. It's that simple, really it is! I love this tip, because when you look at things from this perspective, it makes you think twice about your actions and words.

Now you know what I meant when I said that you probably already knew How To Be A Man Magnet but just never really applied the tips to your own life. As woman, we hear most of these tips on how to be a man magnet over and over again but never really apply them. Now your chance is here! You know how to be a man magnet, so get out there and start attracting!

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