Do you wonder while you’re still single? Is your first date/second date ratio somewhat worrying? Why is that you can’t find a relationship that sticks? You need to think about the kind of woman you are. What is it about your dating style that makes guys see you anything but relationship material?
1 Desperate Debra
Don’t become one of those women who is so obsessed with the idea of finding somebody and settling down that you lower your expectations and end up with somebody who does not deserve to have you. Sure, you may want a relationship more than anything but that does not mean that you have to settle for the next guy who shows any interest.
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Remember, you're a prize, and should be treated as such. Never compromise your self-worth for fear of being alone. A real connection is worth the wait, and settling for less can lead to a lifetime of dissatisfaction. Keep your standards high and trust that the right person will appreciate everything that makes you unique. Hold out for that special someone who not only excites you but also respects and uplifts you. Your happiness and sense of fulfillment should never be a bargaining chip for companionship.
Sure, it’s great for a guy to have a good woman by his side, but this doesn’t mean that you have to be with everywhere he goes! Being supportive and present is one thing, but when it gets to the point where you won’t even let him go to the grocery store on his own, you need to re-evaluate your situation.
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A healthy relationship requires a balance of togetherness and independence. Hovering over your man's every move can smother him and strain the relationship. It's essential to trust him and allow him space. Remember, being inseparable doesn't prove love; it often reflects insecurity. If you find yourself needing constant reassurance or struggling to enjoy time alone, consider exploring personal interests or hobbies. Strengthen your sense of self. A confidently independent woman is incredibly attractive and, in turn, can enhance the partnership, making it more fulfilling and less constrictive.
3 Bossy Brenda
You definitely fall in to this category if you are the kind of girl who gets in to a relationship and immediately wants to change everything about your boyfriend: from telling him what clothes to wear to telling him exactly who of his friends he is allowed to see. Nobody wants to date their own mom. Be a little more relaxed!
4 Reckless Rachel
This is your dating type if you are the kind of girl that likes to turn the volume up to 11 in every aspect of your relationship; sometimes even when it is having a negative effect rather than a positive one. Sure, you love with all of your heart, but you also party with all of your heart and sometimes you can drink too much and embarrass your partner in front of everybody at the club. Being reckless isn’t always sexy.
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You might find yourself being the life of the party, but often forget that every action has its consequences. It's exhilarating to live in the moment, but your spontaneous escapades could be straining your relationship. The dangerous side of your dating persona comes from a lack of boundaries – be it your flirty behavior or the late-night texts to exes. Remember, while living on the edge can be thrilling, it’s important to know when to hit the brakes for the sake of your love life.
5 Jealous Janet
Even if your boyfriend tells you repeatedly, every single day, that you are the only one for him, you cannot help but be totally suspicious all the time, sometimes to the point of doing naughty things like checking his Facebook messages or sneaking a peak at his phone when he out of the room. Take a chill pill and learn to trust!
6 Slutty Sandra
Being as sexy as you want to be with your man is totally your prerogative, but perhaps you need to learn to temper your displays of affection depending on where you are at the time! Getting hot and heavy with a guy on the bus downtown used to be cool when you were a teenager, but now that you are older it just looks plain inappropriate!
7 Controlling Carol
You need to understand that being with a person is not the same thing as being the boss of a person. Sure, you are together in a really intimate way, but that does not mean the two of you become one. He is still his own man and does not deserve to have his whole life controlled by you. He has the right to make his own decisions.
8 Gold Digging Gloria
Do you set your sights on guys who you know have a lot of money, simply because you like to be treated to the finer things in life? This is the wrong way to go about romance if you want to find somebody who means more than just the possession of material things. After all, they do say that money can’t buy you happiness!
9 Daddy Issues Diana
If you have lingering problems related to youthful issues involving your father, then you need to know that finding a man to replace him is not going to be healthy. Perhaps your dad was never around and you want to find a man who you can spend every single second with. It’s not fair on the guy to be unknowingly used as a pawn to try to solve your deeper problems.
10 Beautiful but Crazy Carly
These are the most dangerous of all! They find a man with absolutely minimal effort thanks to their stunning beauty, but once the relationship has started, the crazy starts to come out - usually a combination of every single type of dangerous dating woman that we have discussed above!
If you’re any of the above, maybe, just maybe, it’s time to look at yourself and make some changes if you want to find love.
