Throughout the years, I've been asked a ton of times what body language ideas you should be getting when you're trying to get your crushes attention. Well, I thought about it and I've finally compiled the top 8 body language ideas that will definitely work to get your crushes attention and really make sure that you are at the top of his or her mind! Take a look and let me know if you've tried any of these ideas!
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1. Lock Eyes Three Times
While you might have locked eyes just once, have you ever locked eyes three different times with your crush? This is one of the many body language ideas that really work! While locking eyes once or twice is good, it's the third time that is the key and the one that will hopefully get them to approach you!
2. Point with Your Body
Do you know what I mean when I say point with your body? Face him or her, even if you two aren't talking, still pointing your body toward him or her is going to really make approaching easier. Once you turn and face them, you're opening yourself completely up and allowing yourself to be approachable.
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3. Enhanced Posture
Your posture is going to be one of the biggest things to remember whenever you are trying to get your crush to notice you. Stand up straight, push your shoulders back and really push your chest out. This will make you look more attractive and really enhance your entire body.
4. Fiddle with Your Hair
Whether you have short or long hair, fiddling with your hair can really draw attention to not just your neckline, but it can also be a super flirty gesture. I have medium length hair, cut in an angled bob and I usually just toy with the hair along the back of my neck.
5. Mirror
Mirroring your crushes body language is a great way to really get to know them and to flirt with them a little bit! Whether you are talking to them or just trying to get them to notice you can really allow for the two of you to connect! For me, if I see my crush constantly glancing at me, I'll constantly glance right back!
6. Lean in
When they do finally approach you, now is the time for you to really show your skills and listen to them. Leaning in a great way to show that you are listening and that you are paying attention to them. Who knows, if you lean in enough, they might kiss you!
7. Fix the Fitting of Your Clothes
Do you have a strap of a shirt that constantly falls down or you have a neckline of a shirt that constantly is too low, play with that, fix the fit a little bit and make it slow and sexual. It'll make your crush think about taking your clothes off instead of putting them on!
8. Toy with Your Neck/Collarbones
Finally, toying with your neck and your collarbones, whether you have a necklace on or just run your fingers along your throat, it's all about drawing attention to your skin! Truly, this is a great and sneaky trick!
These are just a few of the body language ideas that are out there! Do you have anymore that you've tried? Give 'em up!
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catt237: Such a cute article!
Sumaya: having your brother in your school sucks!! you are just no allowed to do anything!! especially flirting!!
Angelina: excuse me...i want to know if this guy likes me.There was a guy that i completely didnt know, who sat in the front of the school every morning during the breakfast hours. As i would get of my bus , id step down and see him sitting there we would exchange eye contact and go about our day.I wouldnt really see him DURING school. and it happened like that everyday for about 11 months.My whole freshman year of highschool. Hes cute and all but i dint really feel much between us, other than a weird surge-like feeling. Now, school has ended for summer and i got to summer school.And during the week on mondays and thursdays, id see him in the comp. room and he would make eye contact with me across the room.He seemed to have peeked my interest there and i wanted to see what was his deal. About last week, during lunch i was talking with my friends and id occasionally glance over there once or twice and he'd be looking at me, then quickly look away.When the bell rang and it was time to go back to our summer school class , i was having a quick conversation with my friend jasmine and he comes from behind me and taps me shocking me a bit.(i mean if you saw something so beautiful up close out of know where you wouldve been shocked too)and he said "ferme la bouche" (french for shut your mouth, i do think so) and i just looked at him like "ok.....?" and his friends laughed.I dont know why he signaled me out, out of all the girls to talk to, who were loud as hell..but whatever. And Today he seemed to have glanced at me more often and laugh when i made faces at a girl who push me out of the way to get to class but i dont know whats up with him.I dont talk to him and i dont know him, but i feels this..."chain" if you will pulling us together....why am i feeling this way...and whats is his deal?Does he like me? P.S. i started liking him out of nowhere today...still dont know why.
Molly: Great advice to the less experienced flirters out there. They all work people! Seriously, try them out.
Erin: I'm trying this
futuretraveler: *think
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