8 Body Language Ideas to Try on Your Crush ...

By Heather • May 26, 2013

Throughout the years, I've been asked a ton of times what body language ideas you should be getting when you're trying to get your crushes attention. Well, I thought about it and I've finally compiled the top 8 body language ideas that will definitely work to get your crushes attention and really make sure that you are at the top of his or her mind! Take a look and let me know if you've tried any of these ideas!

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1. Lock Eyes Three Times

While you might have locked eyes just once, have you ever locked eyes three different times with your crush? This is one of the many body language ideas that really work! While locking eyes once or twice is good, it's the third time that is the key and the one that will hopefully get them to approach you!

2. Point with Your Body

Do you know what I mean when I say point with your body? Face him or her, even if you two aren't talking, still pointing your body toward him or her is going to really make approaching easier. Once you turn and face them, you're opening yourself completely up and allowing yourself to be approachable.

3. Enhanced Posture

Your posture is going to be one of the biggest things to remember whenever you are trying to get your crush to notice you. Stand up straight, push your shoulders back and really push your chest out. This will make you look more attractive and really enhance your entire body.

4. Fiddle with Your Hair

Whether you have short or long hair, fiddling with your hair can really draw attention to not just your neckline, but it can also be a super flirty gesture. I have medium length hair, cut in an angled bob and I usually just toy with the hair along the back of my neck.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Mirror

Mirroring your crushes body language is a great way to really get to know them and to flirt with them a little bit! Whether you are talking to them or just trying to get them to notice you can really allow for the two of you to connect! For me, if I see my crush constantly glancing at me, I'll constantly glance right back!

6. Lean in

When they do finally approach you, now is the time for you to really show your skills and listen to them. Leaning in a great way to show that you are listening and that you are paying attention to them. Who knows, if you lean in enough, they might kiss you!

7. Fix the Fitting of Your Clothes

Do you have a strap of a shirt that constantly falls down or you have a neckline of a shirt that constantly is too low, play with that, fix the fit a little bit and make it slow and sexual. It'll make your crush think about taking your clothes off instead of putting them on!

8. Toy with Your Neck/Collarbones

Finally, toying with your neck and your collarbones, whether you have a necklace on or just run your fingers along your throat, it's all about drawing attention to your skin! Truly, this is a great and sneaky trick!

These are just a few of the body language ideas that are out there! Do you have anymore that you've tried? Give 'em up!

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  • addyson

    2013-05-27T15:29:45.000Z

    This is really helpful!
  • Erin

    2013-05-27T17:29:09.000Z

    I'm trying this
  • Leah

    2013-05-26T20:32:06.000Z

    I think #5 is kind of ridiculous. Sticking out your chest can be considered slutty. And it just looks weird. And you want to look relaxed, not like you have a stick up your as*. I would suggest not slouching, but letting your shoulders drop down instead of forward or back. Just tryin to help
  • Rhys

    2013-05-28T04:02:29.000Z

    I was wondering about this guy in my class, I always check him looking at me and he does that thing where he is always showing off ( but that's he's personality). I always catch him staring at me. We lock eyes but I usually just look away fast. I don't know if he likes me. Apparently he does ( my friends cousin heard him say so) but we are in grade 7 and I want to date but again I'm in grade 7. What should I do till I'm 14 or 15?
  • Ashley

    2013-05-26T21:35:16.000Z

    Wonderful tips! I agree with Leah Dombroski... You shouldn't lead with your breasts, as dancers are taught. But stand or sit up straight and letting your shoulders drop down is better looking. Just sayin;)
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