8 Common Relationship Fights to Avoid ...

8 Common Relationship Fights to Avoid ...
By Heather

Relationship Fights are hard to work out! If you’re in a relationship, you know that relationship fights happen. It’s common to fight with the person that means the most to you. Ladies, do you know what the most common relationship fights are though? That’s what we’re going to talk about below, that way – the next time you’re in a fight with your boy, you’ll be able to identify exactly what the real issue is!

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1. Money

Number 1 relationship fight by far is over money. Do you have enough, do you have too little – are you financially strained? These are all questions that can spark a fight. Once the money talk starts, expect some type of fight to ensue, unless you defuse it really quick.

2. Jealousy

The next common relationship fight shouldn’t surprise you: jealousy. If your boyfriend is hanging out with a girl, you’re probably jealous, even if they are only friends. If you’re hanging out with a guy friend, your boyfriend is probably jealous. It’s human nature, but remember to keep your jealousy in check, before a relationship fight erupts!

3. Incompatibility

Sometimes, if you’ve been with someone for a while, you just aren’t compatible anymore. Heck, if could be because you two grew apart, it could be because of the different interests, it could be because you two live opposite lifestyles. If you’ve been having too many fights about incompatibility, it might be time to look at your relationship though.

4. Priorities

If you’ve been with someone for a while, your priorities should be similar to one another. If family is important to you, it should be a priority for your boyfriend too. If your career is important to you, it should be important to your boyfriend too. These are core things to keep in mind when you’re thinking long-term with someone.

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5. Lack of Sex

Oh-em-gee, is this one of the biggest relationship fights out there for a lot of couples. Men want to have sex all of the time, women aren’t giving it up easily – it’s a circle! If you’re having this problem, you might want to look into it a little closer, maybe there is a deeper meaning of why you aren’t having sex more often.

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6. The past

Every single time that I bring up the past with the Better Half, it typically turns into a fight or adds to a fight nonetheless. The motto ladies? The past is the past, you can’t change it and it isn’t going anywhere. If you’re in a fight, leave the past out of it, if you’re starting a fight, leave the past alone.

7. Stress

Everyone in the world gets stressed out. You’ve had a bad day at work, you’ve had a stressful day at home – don’t take it out on your partner. Your partner is the one that should relax you, not stress you out!

8. Going out

Finally ladies, the last common fight starter in a relationship that I’ve seen is all about going out. Your boy wants to go out, you don’t want to, he still goes. It all boils down to compromise ladies. Even if you don’t want to go out all of the time, once in a while, go out and then once in a while, he stays in.

Dealing with relationship fights isn’t fun, but it’s common. If you’re in a relationship, you’re bound to have some relationship fights throughout your relationship. So ladies, what are some of the silliest relationship fights you’ve ever been in? Come on, spill!

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost five years and he says that I'm childish when I get mad at him for having sleepovers with his ex girlfriend and not texting me when she is around. This weekend he ignored me for three days. Please help me. I don't know what to do

i may say we had fights about his past and sometimes jealousy but we still end up in good understanding and sleep in peace,,,it's what matters...

what about me? i make love to my boyfriend once a month because were both busy. and he still thinks that i might have sex with other guys where in fact, he got me 1st. what shall i do?

Lack of sex? It's the other way round. It's me who wants it all the time, but I get it only twice a week. How can I deal with that?

:0... I have a high sex drive and before I settle down with a bloke I always warn him and there responses are usually the same 'yeah.. thats what all women say'', Two month in thier drained and admit they can not keep up. My bloke has hot and cold patches. I could happily haave sex 3-4 times a day but he can't do it. His ideal situation is about 4 times a week. But if he has a LOT on at work or money worries he can not touch me in weeks. But I've come to realise I have to just leave and then he hits back better then ever. We only usually have a 'dry spell' every 8 month or so. I could not handel once a month. Is it a physical problem or just he has low sex drive?

Me and my boyfriend have dated for about 4 months now, and he's pushing sex on me. He's 2 1/2 years older than me and I said we should wait because I'm just scared. And he said he wants me to decide. But last time he said that he got kinda ticked off at me because I said wait. Now were fighting right now and I don't know what to tell him. If I say yes to do it; my morals go down.. But if I say no; he will be disappointed. Help?!

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