Figuring out the signs it's a rebound relationship is difficult! It's sometimes, so hard to see all of the signs it's a rebound and you actually believe that you are in love with the person (or that you are truly over your ex). Girls, if you're asking yourself if your relationship is just a rebound relationship, you should really be looking into signs it's a rebound relationship. Below, I've got all of the signs it's a rebound relationship so that you'll be able to tell if your with your boyfriend for the right reasons.
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1. You Just Want to Date Someone
Do you find yourself just wanting to date someone? Do you think that maybe, you just want to not be lonely anymore? This could absolutely be one of the top signs it's a rebound relationship girls. You want to be with Mr. Right for all of the right reasons, not just because he is someone that is there. Remember, it might be difficult to think that way, but do you even like the guy that you are dating?
2. You Never Got over Your Ex
Did you allow yourself time to actually get over your ex? Did you actually allow yourself time between your ex boyfriend and your current dating partner? If not, it could be a sign it's a rebound relationship. You have to allow yourself time to actually stop the pain and to get over your ex girls, you can't just jump into another relationship.
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3. You Have Bad Mood Swings Constantly
If you don't allow yourself time to heal, mood swings can absolutely happen. Do you find yourself constantly swinging between good and bad moods? Do you constantly find yourself snapping at your boyfriend for no reason? That's one of the signs it's a rebound relationship, but you might not know it yet!
4. You Want Constant Reassurance
What about reassurance, do you think that you constantly need to have reassurance? Do you constantly need to have a man reassuring you? That could be a sign it's a rebound relationship girls. You don't need to constantly be reassured that you made the right decision or that you are hot – you are and you did. Remember that!
5. You Fantasize about Your Ex
What about your fantasies? Do they constantly include your ex? Do you always think about your ex when you are having sex with your current boyfriend? Do you compare them a lot? That's a sign it's a rebound relationship girls, you just might not know it. Remember, if you are dating someone, you should be fully committed to them.
6. You Haven't Taken Things Slowly
Did the first date end in a sleepover and you didn't even allow yourself to get through dinner? That could be a sign that you are just looking for something to help you through the pain. While it's okay to date around and flirt a bit, taking things too fast can be damaging to a new relationship and could be a sign it's a rebound relationship.
7. You Use Sex to Help You through the Pain
What about the sex though, do you use that to help you get through all of the pain that you are feeling? Do you feel better when you are having sex with your current boyfriend? Is it always temporary? Remember girls, you want to have sex for the right reasons, not to just help you through the pain.
8. You Don't Know Your Current Partner
Finally, how well do you know your current boyfriend? Do you know how he takes his coffee? What about his favorite food? These are all things to consider. Do you even care what music he listens too? That could be a sign girls!
Well girls, there you have it! All of my top signs it's a rebound relationship! If you've ever been the reboundee, it's hard to deal with. So girls, what other signs it's a rebound relationship do you watch out for?
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Irene: I felt some what bad for this one chick who clearly didn't see the signs of a rebound relationship. She was the target while the guy played her because he was caught up in his ex. It was a matter of time when he'd get back to her. She is pretending that it won't happen but what a sweet naive girl... Anything to believe that she is in love. Its going to hit her hard. Soon enough.
Axelle: 8 Easy Ways to Tell If You Are in a Rebound Relationship ... It's a girl thing (via Twitter)
Noni: Love this, and you're right. If you can't get over someone, then don't lead someone on, please! Trust me, being lead on (and actually having REAL feelings for that person) really does hurt.
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