7 Flirty Ways to Give Him Your Phone Number ...

7 Flirty Ways to Give Him Your Phone Number ...
By Holly • May 20, 2024 MD

If talking to your crush in person isn’t enough, there are flirty ways to give him your phone number. Some of them require you to be brave, while others can be done casually. Whether you’re shy or bold, you can use one of these ways to give him your phone number:

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1. Lend a Helping Hand

You don’t have to be obvious about your feelings for him when giving him your number. If you see him struggling with his math homework, tell him to give you a call if he needs your help. You’re just being nice, so he can’t judge you for it. If you’re not afraid to be flirty, you can playfully tell him to call you if he needs help picking out a tie that goes with his gorgeous eyes. You can spice up the conversation any way you want, but it's one of the ways to give him your phone number that can seem casual.

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2. On That Note

If you’re super shy, you can leave a note on his desk with your number on it. Just make sure that you write your name or an inside joke on it, so that he knows it’s from you. If you’re bold, you can slip the note right into his pocket while giving him a flirty smile.

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Ensure that your note has a touch of personal flair—whether it's a cute doodle or a spritz of your favorite perfume. This little personalization can turn a simple message into something special and memorable. Just be cautious not to be too invasive of his personal space or to make him uncomfortable. The key is to keep the encounter light-hearted and casual, which will make the possibility of a future conversation all the more exciting for him.

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3. Old School Sweethearts

In old movies, a girl takes a guy’s hand and writes her number on it with a pen. Now that we have phones, that rarely happens, but it’s a cute idea. Just make sure that the numbers are visible. You don’t want them to rub off easily, because he won’t be able to call you to set up a hot date.

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4. Profit from Technology

If he lets you see his phone to look at a web page or picture, take the opportunity to enter your number onto his contact list. Make sure that you tell him that it’s on there, or leave the page open, so that he realizes that he has your info. If you just put the number in there and never tell him about it, he may not notice, and you’ll never chat.

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5. Bet the Boy

If you both love the same show, or sports team, you can make a bet over what the outcome will be. Tell him that the winner buys the loser dinner. If you do so, you’re practically setting up a date for the two of you, and it’s difficult to date if you don’t have each other’s number. Give him your number, and tell him that you look forward to your victory meal.

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6. Everyone

If you're super shy, and you're with a group of people, give all of them your number. The only downside is that he won't know if he's special to you, so he might not call. However, this is one of the least risky ways to go about the task.

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7. Bring It up

If he tells you about a party he went to, and then says, “You should’ve come,” reply by saying that you don’t think you’ve ever given him your number. If he brushes it off, then forget about him. But if he whips out his phone to enter your digits, then you know he’s interested.

Men aren't required to make the first move. If you like someone, there's nothing stopping you from giving them your number. It'll give you a chance to get to know each other and communicate more. Do you text your crush?

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  • mmagirl

    2014-05-29T19:06:11.327Z

    All of these ideas are perfect!
  • Wendy

    2014-05-29T19:14:44.544Z

    @francesca he wants to get to know you better I think
  • Francesca

    2014-05-30T00:36:36.003Z

    he doesn't have a girlfriend he just moved and he's definitely single.
  • Madiha

    2014-05-30T00:46:34.958Z

    then I think u should go for him. he probably didn't give u his number cuz he doesn't have a phone
  • dragonflyblu

    2014-05-29T19:14:35.859Z

    Mail him
  • lilly

    2022-05-16T07:44:50.155Z

    never be afraid to say something when you know he just amusing to you
  • Marbs

    2014-05-29T19:15:09.706Z

    @francesca maybe he has a girlfriend
  • Francesca

    2014-05-29T19:10:10.812Z

    I tried doing this, but he gave me his email instead...what does that mean?
  • Mia

    2014-06-01T06:09:14.529Z

    shyness can be good sometimes but figure out if he has given his email/number to any other girls if he has it probably means he doesn't have the same feelings for you if not just try emailing him u can still use flirting techniques with him via email but if u really want his number just give him yours and ask him to text u
  • Francesca

    2014-06-03T00:35:58.430Z

    He treats me different than the other girls. These girls does have his number but they're really just his friend. I feel like he has a line of respect for me. I hold back a lot because I don't know his intention...:(
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