If there is one thing that the majority of us are searching for in life, it is true, long-lasting love. The kind of love that you see in old-fashioned movies! The modern state of the dating world has made this old-fashioned kind of love even harder to try and achieve, but don’t worry, there are definitely still options and opportunities out there for girls who want a fairytale ending to their own story! Here is how to find the love your zodiac sign deserves.
You need to get out of the fear of putting yourself out there and being vulnerable. As an Aries, you are terrified of rejection, but the only way to find true love it lay it all out there on the line.
You spend too much time worrying about your past and the regrets that you have, so what you need to do is think more positively about the future and you will start to attract like-minded guys.
You need to put yourself out there and orchestrate situations where you might find a love interest. You have become too comfortable with your lonely routine that doesn’t put you in contact with others.
You tend to enjoy the pleasure of your own company too much, to the extent that you don’t feel the need to break out of your comfort zone and actively work towards finding love.
You have a problem with high expectations, and you need to lower them to allow guys into your life that actually might be able to make you happy! Your high standards mean you are missing out on a lot of great possibilities!
You are too much of a perfectionist and control freak. In order to find a love that is definitely going to last, you need to work on relinquishing your need to make all of the decisions.
Try not to get too upset and disheartened by bad romantic experiences that you have. One bad string of dates doesn’t mean that you have to shut yourself away from romance for a long time.
Stop torturing yourself over bad previous relationships. Just because you got it wrong once upon a time, it doesn’t mean that you are destined to get it wrong every time.
Up until now you have had something of an issue with commitment, but as soon as you realise that you don’t have to give up your independence in order to be with someone, you’ll be fine.
You are a little bit too goal driven, which means that you tend to treat relationships like a job, hitting targets etc. Relax your attitude to being with someone and you will have a much better time.
Stop trying to mould every guy that you meet into something that they aren’t. Just remember that any man is just as comfortable with his own personality as you are with yours, and you wouldn’t want a guy to try to change you like that!
Try to practice lots more self care. You always put others above yourself, and this results in you not having high self esteem and not thinking that you deserve a great love.