Maybe your boyfriend cheated on you. Maybe your crush led you on. Maybe a man ended up being completely different than you thought he'd be. It doesn't matter what his crime was, because all that matters is that your heart was shattered. Since you won't want to experience such a dreadful feeling ever again, here are a few ways to stop getting screwed over by men:
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1. Don't Call Him Your Boyfriend after One Date
A date and a marriage proposal are two totally different things. That's why you shouldn't consider a man to be your boyfriend after one little date. You should take things slow, so you have a chance to get to know him. If you rush into things, then you could end up in a relationship with a heartbreaker.
2. Watch out for Red Flags
If you really want a relationship to work, you'll ignore all of the questionable things that he does. However, you should force yourself to be more strict. If he does something you don't like, consider it to be a red flag. If too many of those red flags occur, then you should leave him before he has the opportunity to hurt you. Don't stick around and wait for it to happen.
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3. Do Research on Him
Don't be afraid to look through his Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Pinterest, and Instagram. They can tell you a lot about him, which can save you a whole lot of trouble. You should also ask around about him to see if any of your friends or classmates have anything bad to say. There's nothing wrong with doing a little research.
4. Learn the Signs of Lying
You shouldn't believe everything that comes out of a man's mouth. Even though you'd feel guilty lying to him, he might be capable of lying to you through his teeth. That's why you should learn the signs of lying. If he's touching his face and refusing to look you in the eye, be weary of what he's saying. He might be making everything up.
5. Date Multiple Men at Once
You're allwoed to go on several dates with several different men. In fact, it's encouraged. That way, you'll keep your options open. Plus, when one man doesn't call you back for a second date, you won't dwell on it, because there will be plenty of other men in your life.
6. Make Sure You're on the Same Page
Before you kiss a guy, figure out if you two are on the same page. If you're looking for a serious relationship, let him know. That way, he can tell you if he's looking for the same thing or if he's just looking for a fling. It's important for you two to be on the same page if you want to avoid getting your heart broken.
7. Wait to Sleep with Him
If you want to have sex with a man on the first date, then go for it. However, if you're the type who gets attached after sleeping with someone, it'll be best for you to hold off on having sex. Wait until you really get to know him and can fully trust him to take off your clothes in front of him. That way, he won't be able to screw you over.
Don't let a player break your heart ever again. What other tips do you have to help women stop getting screwed over by men?
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PatriciaY: I just did all the no...I kept telling myself don't expect don't hope. I really like him on after d first date. On the 2nd I felt the connection I never had with any men, I went let's do it.. He respected when I said no 1st time. We did have a great time but now when I told him I like him n if he sees something I think it is a deal breaker..I felt he kinda shuts me out..I am kinda upset
Cindy: Who can resist Chris Evans asking fir a DATE????
Gina: Don't ever text him first
Meta: Amen!!!
Carmen: Don't ever sleep with a man on the first date let weeks go by or months just to make sure that is what you want to do especially with him
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