7 Conclusive Signs That Tell You He is Single ...

7 Conclusive Signs That Tell You He is Single ...
By Valencia • Aug 12, 2016

Whether you have your eye on someone, or you're currently getting to know a guy, how do you really know if he’s single? Relationships can be tricky, and in the beginning, some people aren't exactly honest about their situations. With a little investigating, you can get to the bottom of a guy’s relationship status.

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1. Do a Little Innocent Snooping

If you're hanging out with a guy and you want to be absolutely sure he's single, do a little snooping when you're alone at his place. For example, you can check his magazine rack to see what he's reading. Be suspicious if there are magazines like Cosmo or Redbook in the stash. Take a trip to the bathroom and quietly look underneath his cabinet for any evidence of a girlfriend (feminine hygiene products, pink razor blades, etc. )

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Similarly, cast a quick glance around his living room. A collection of romantic movies or chick flick DVDs gathering dust could raise an eyebrow - is he really into The Notebook on his own? Keep an eye out for any frilly throw pillows or decorative items that seem out of place in a bachelor pad. These could be remnants of a couple's shared taste. Even a closer observation of his fridge contents can be telling; an assortment of diet foods or drinks could suggest someone else is making grocery trips.

2. Check His Grocery Cart

Let's say you're shopping and walk pass a guy who catches your eye. You might notice he's not wearing a wedding ring. Peek inside his grocery cart to see what he’s buying. If you see a cart full of frozen dinners or other prepackage meals, there's a good chance that he lives alone and he might be single. But there's no way to know for sure unless you ask.

3. Ask around

If you're interested in a guy, but you don't want to ask him if he’s single, casually ask around. Maybe you have mutual friends and you want to know his relationship status before expressing your interest. You should also ask questions about him to assess whether you’ll be a match. What’s his personality or interests? Is he a good person?

4. Suggest Hanging out with His Friends

If you're in a new relationship with a guy, and you want to make sure he's single, suggest getting together with a few of his friends and double dating. If he's being honest with you, he might be open to the idea. But if he has another girl in his life, he might make excuses and keep you as far away from his friends (and family) as possible.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Check His Facebook Profile

If you're interested in a particular guy, you can also check his relationship status by visiting his Facebook page. If he doesn't have any privacy settings, scroll down his page and look for any evidence of a relationship. You can also check his photos , which might also indicate he’s in a relationship.

6. Be Observant

Being observant and paying attention to little details can also help you determine whether a man is single. Do you notice a slight discoloration on his left ring finger? If so, he might have removed a ring shortly before meeting you. Or if he never answers the phone when you call, but always returns your call five or 10 minutes later, this can also be a sign that he's not single. He might have to wait until he’s alone to talk.

7. Cleverly Ask Him

Coming out and asking whether he’s single is one way to get your answer. You can have a small social gathering at your home and invite a guy you're interested in. Let him know he can bring his girlfriend. If he says, “okay we’ll love to attend,” you know he's taken. But if he says, “I don't have a girlfriend, can I bring a friend,” you’re free to make your move.

Unfortunately, you can’t simply look at a guy and tell whether he’s single. It might take a little investigating and trickery to get to the bottom of his relationship status. What are other ways to tell if a guy is single?

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  • Amber

    2016-08-13T15:56:00.077Z

    When I felt bad & just got through the hardest break up of my life, I did acouple things. I had to ground myself every morning. I told myself I can get out of bed & my son needs me. I would go for walks outside, journal my feelings &sign up for new events.
  • Jennifer

    2015-08-03T06:26:07.071Z

    This is too much..just ask him
  • Mj1994

    2015-08-04T06:35:27.489Z

    Here's the thing about"just ask him" : they lie.
  • Zoe

    2015-10-14T01:25:53.667Z

    Hi I am single and trying have fun no friends feeling bad :(
  • Cyn

    2015-08-03T06:22:46.892Z

    This is lamo...
  • Amber

    2016-08-13T15:53:23.803Z

    When a guy ghosts you, look at it as a blessing in disguise. He couldn't handle what you wanted. You should never settle & always be yourself. I have talked to my girlfriends when this has happened.
  • alka

    2015-08-06T07:47:22.093Z

    @Mj1994 not every guy lies! Most are honest ablut their relationship statua because now a days with social media there isnt much you can hide in terms of that.
  • lariolaribigbe

    2015-08-03T02:56:25.042Z

    Smart writeup
  • Splashhhh

    2015-08-03T03:33:47.500Z

    Instead of all this puzzle I would just go and ask stright farward, as simple as that.
  • alka

    2015-08-06T07:47:32.478Z

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