Little Changes Your Man Will Show if Hes Cheating on You ...

His Phone is Always on Airplane Mode • He Styles His Hair Differently • He Takes Forever to Text Back • He Accuses You of Cheating • He Doesn't Kiss You Often • More ...

Little Changes Your Man Will Show if Hes Cheating on You ...
By Holly • Nov 27, 2018 MD

Unfortunately, people are capable of some pretty crummy things. That's why you should always keep your eyes open for red flags in relationships to avoid getting your heart broken. When you let your guard down, that's when it's the easiest to get hurt. If you're worried that your man might be cheating on you, here are a few little changes that suggest that you're correct:

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1. His Phone is Always on Airplane Mode

The way that your boyfriend treats his phone can be a big indicator of how loyal he is. If he won't let you touch it, even though he hasn't had a problem with you using it in the past, then he's keeping something a secret. You should also be concerned if he suddenly adds a lock screen to his phone, or if he puts his cell on airplane mode when you're together to avoid receiving text messages.

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Airplane mode could be his way of ensuring no unexpected notifications pop up that could incriminate him. It's a precaution that hints he may have conversations he doesn't want you to see. Besides, if his phone suddenly goes from being a shared device to a top-secret vault, that's a red flag. Lack of transparency, especially when it was once there, is concerning. Trust your intuition and look for patterns. If he’s protective over his phone to the point of secrecy, there might be more to his behavior than meets the eye.

2. He Styles His Hair Differently

You shouldn't automatically accuse your man of cheating, just because he took a trip to the barber shop. However, if he changes his hair, changes his cologne, and changes his style of clothing all at once, he might be trying to impress another lady.

3. He Takes Forever to Text Back

If your boyfriend usually answers your messages in five minutes, but it's suddenly taking him hours, he might not think of you as a priority anymore. Even worse, he might be out and about with other people, so he's too busy to look at his phone to check his messages.

4. He Accuses You of Cheating

Some cheaters aren't born to cheat. Instead of enjoying their unfaithfulness, they'll become super paranoid. When that happens, your boyfriend will end up accusing you of cheating, even though you've done nothing to make him worry. He's just trying to place the blame on you, so he doesn't have to carry it all on his shoulders.

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5. He Doesn't Kiss You Often

If your boyfriend stopped showing you affection or sleeping with you, for seemingly no reason, then he could be cheating. After all, if he's getting his kisses elsewhere, then he won't be eager to get them when he sees you. If he's not sick or depressed, then a sudden drop in affection is a huge red flag.

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Physical intimacy is a crucial component of many romantic relationships, acting as a barometer for closeness and connection. When he starts withholding those intimate moments, it could indicate that his affections are being directed elsewhere. It's not just about the quantity of kisses, but also their quality. If they suddenly feel perfunctory or passionless, listen to what your instincts are telling you. Emotional detachment often accompanies a stark decrease in physical closeness, so trust your feelings if you sense something is amiss. Keep an eye out for him being particularly avoidant or distant when you attempt to initiate affection.

6. He Hangs out with Friends You've Never Heard of

If you've been with your boyfriend for a while, then you've probably met all of his friends. If he suddenly tells you that he can't hang out with you, because he's hanging out with "George," and it's a name you've never heard before, you should be concerned. He might be making up "George" in order to have an excuse that'll allow him to cheat.

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If you've been with your boyfriend for a while, then you've probably met all of his friends. If he suddenly tells you that he can't hang out with you, because he's hanging out with "George," and it's a name you've never heard before, you should be concerned. He might be making up "George" in order to have an excuse that'll allow him to cheat. Even if George is real, it's strange that someone you've never heard of before suddenly becomes a priority. Your boyfriend should want to involve you more, not shut you out with vague explanations. Keep an open dialogue and ask questions.

7. He Stops Saying “I Love You”

If your man used to tell you how much he loved you every single day, but now he won't return the phrase after you say it to him, then he might be having second thoughts about your relationship. If he really loved you, then he wouldn't hesitate to scream if from the rooftops.

If your man only does one of these things, you shouldn't be worried. However, if he gives you multiple reasons to believe that he's cheating, you should sit him down to have a serious chat. Have you ever been cheated on?

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  • Surayya

    2015-09-12T19:33:00.207Z

    Not true. My boyfriend did it all ( allowed me to look at his phone. Smart one would delete his calls list and text messages from his women) he d not stop say how much he loves me he would rather spend time with me than friends . Sign he is cheating is when is extra all that. Loving compassionate giving a helping hand clingy ! That is time to say "this is too much love dicey what is going on ?" Sure enough he was cheating. Not with one but more ! He is narcissist !
  • peony

    2015-09-11T21:16:43.095Z

    @wendy I agree. Also sometimes you can never tell if an is cheating but the truth always outs.
  • Wendy

    2015-09-11T21:06:47.586Z

    Anymore*
  • Laura

    2015-09-12T06:34:05.095Z

    Or if he calls you incompetent or any names really.
  • Sakshi

    2015-09-12T14:35:17.704Z

    Yes..and he is married to that woman..his loss :p
  • Yin

    2015-09-12T02:29:21.967Z

    So true.... I have gone through this and there's nothing worse then your guy cheating
  • peony

    2015-09-13T11:39:52.301Z

    @Chantsl it wasn't a waste. It is an eye opener for you. You are loving on to greater a bigger things. He will not learn and it would be his down. Don't look back in anger see it as you were lucky to get set it could have been worse u could have married him!
  • Agirlhasnoname

    2016-10-12T04:29:20.554Z

    I think my boyfriend is cheating on me and every time I confront him I'm the one apologizing.
  • sharon

    2015-09-14T14:56:03.089Z

    @ Chantal it's his loss. You deserve somebody who loves you for who you are
  • Wendy

    2015-09-11T19:59:34.205Z

    No, I haven't. Cheating is an awful thing to do. If you are not in love anyone, get out instead of hurting him or her.
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