You just got out of a bad relationship. Now that you think about it, this was just one of many relationships where you both just weren't on the same page. After having so many terrible experiences, it sometimes feels like you're never going to find someone who is genuine and takes dating 👫 seriously.
When it comes to relationships, having a positive ☺️ mindset makes all of the difference. If you go into the dating field with the idea 💡 that you will find someone who is on the same wavelength as you, only good things will follow 👍. It doesn't matter how unlucky you may have been before, the right guy is just around the corner. Here's how you can use the laws of attraction to snag your dream catch 😍.
1. Love Yourself 💕 First and Foremost
Before you can fully commit to another person and give a relationship 💏 your all, you have to be able to commit to yourself first. How can you expect someone else to fall in love with you if you don't love yourself first 💝?
2. Be Upfront about What You're Looking for
Instead of beating yourself up for each failed relationship, take a closer look at why they didn't work out. Was he a workaholic? Did he make you feel like he didn't value your relationship? Take the negatives of each failed relationship and turn them into a list of things that you DON'T want repeated in your next one.
3. There's Nothing Wrong with Having a Type or *not* Having a Type 👌
This ties in with the previous point. There's nothing wrong with having a specific type of guy that you're into, especially if he shares the same relationship or even career goals as you. On the other hand, it's okay to be open minded too.
4. Jealousy 💚 Makes Things Ugly Real Fast
Let's be real. Everyone gets jealous, end of story. Every time you see a cute couple showing major PDA, it reminds you of how alone you feel. It's okay if the green-eyed monster rears it's head from time to time but don't let it affect how you feel about your own situation. Instead, use that to fuel ⛽ your search for your perfect soulmate.
5. Keep Working on Your Dating Goals until They Become a Reality
I am a firm believer in the idea 💭 that if you really want something, staying positive and actively thinking about it will help it manifest.
6. Put Yourself out There
Now that you're thinking 💭 of diving 🏊 back into the dating 👫 game, all that's left to do is actually go out there and find it. Sometimes, we find love ❤️ when we least expect it.
7. If at First You Don't Succeed, Try Again
Nothing about dating is easy. The honest truth is that you're going to have to kiss 👄 a few frogs before you find your prince. But having to put in the effort to find the right guy makes it all worth it.
8. Stop ✋ Second-guessing Yourself
You finally scored a date but it was terrible. Now you can't help thinking if it's something you said or did, if you're the common denominator. Stop it right there 🙅. There are so many factors that can go into why things didn't work out. At least you know what to fix 🔧 next time around.