9 Clear Signs Your Online Boyfriend is Cheating ...


9 Clear Signs Your Online Boyfriend is Cheating ...
9 Clear Signs Your Online Boyfriend is Cheating ...

Deciphering all of the signs online boyfriend is cheating is never, ever easy. You are here, they are there and sometimes, you've never even met your online boyfriend! If you've ever been in an online relationship, picking up on signs online boyfriend is cheating is next to impossible – unless you know what to look for. I've been watching the show Catfish lately and that is exactly what inspired this post – I mean, how many of you ladies are in online relationships right now? Take a look below to make sure your online boyfriend isn't cheating!

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He Doesn't Answer Your Phone Calls

Are you at the point where you are talking on the phone with your online boyfriend? If so, it's easier to pick up on the signs online boyfriend is cheating, especially if he won't answer your phone calls! How many times have you called him? Has he answered at all? That's a sign girls, I hate to say it. He can't be that busy all of the time right?


Always Too Busy to Call You

If he is busy all that time, is he too busy to call you? Does he call you at all? Ever? That's another sign girls that he could be spending time with someone 'real', instead of someone that he has committed himself to emotionally. Sometimes, when you are dating someone online, it's hard to be truthful always, but if you find the phone calls decreasing and next to nothing, he could be cheating.


Never Online

In the beginning of the relationship, was he always online? Was he constantly messaging you and constantly popping up? Is he never, ever online now? Is he always 'away' or just not ever showing up? It could be because he is spending his time with someone else instead of with you.


His Privacy Settings on Facebook

Oh, this is a big one and one that is very hard to figure out. He could have his privacy settings on Facebook set so that you don't see everything that he posts. It is very hard to figure this one out, but if you share the same friends and your friends are seeing posts that you aren't, that's a sign girls.


He Doesn't Text You a Lot

Sending through a quick text message doesn't take a whole lot of time does it? Are you not getting any text messages from him? Are you seeing a decrease in all of the communication? That could be because he is with someone else now, but doesn't want to end it with you. Think about it girls.


He Makes up Stories about Where He Was

When you finally do get a hold of him, does it take him a while to actually answer you when you question where he was? Does he often stumble over his words and stories? That could be a huge red flag that you need to watch out for when you're dealing with an online boyfriend.


You See Him Tagged in Pictures with Girls

Okay, so maybe he hasn't set any of his privacy settings at all and you now are seeing him tagged with 'friends' of his that are all girls. Do you see that on your newsfeed? Do you see inappropriate things? It could be a sign that he is cheating on you with people that he's met.


You Know None of His Friends

This is another tricky one, as most online boyfriends don't immediately introduce their friends to their 'girlfriend', especially if they haven't met them, but if your guy is typically open about who his friends are and will even call you when they are around him – but you don't get to talk to them? That's a sign girls.


The Feeling is Different

Finally, go with your gut! If the feeling between you two is different, talk to him about it! Figure out what the problem is, figure out where he has been spending his time and where his head is at. It might just be a conversation that has to be had, that's all.

So girls, those are all of my tips and signs that you can use to spot if your online boyfriend is cheating on you! Are you dating someone online? Are you in an online relationship? Share your experience in the comments!

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Hii Heather could you pls help me!!! Me and my bf make 1 month today. But he hardly txts back frm snapchat...i even told him we dnt hve a long convo that we use to hve. Ive been crying some nights just to wait for his damn txt, i really dnt know what to do. There are times when i get a txt from him...i txt asap then he looks at it then he doesnt reply. Im in love with him really am. He told me that he had been really busy in life...and im thinking he shud at least cut some time from his busy schedule to at least chat with me, or do i sound to needy. We only face to face chated 4 times. Now i feel used and he just brush me aside. I met him on a online dating site now i feel regrets now. I should have learn frm my first online dating....imma just wait and see whats going to happen

#5 He texts me on discord but is inactive is that cheating theirs this minor he might be cheating on me with yes I'm a paranoid person...Shes always online when he does not reply!

I've been in an online romance for 6 months now, and reading this article has opened up my eyes a lot. We Skype very often and he never seems to tell me much about his personal life. He never tells me who his friends are or if he's hanging out with someone. He's lied to me once before about hanging out with someone and not telling me. I have a gut feeling that he is having feelings for other girls, because a lot of girls post on his Facebook, and message him, etc. It being long distance, I have no way to confirm it, and I don't want to end anything if he isn't cheating after all. Should I confront him?

#8 He always one says "My friends are calling" or something like that, I never met them I'm suspicious of his "friends"

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