Vanilla sex consists of having sex in the same old positions at the same time of night. It's basic stuff, but after a while, it can be pretty boring. So here are a few sex tips for women who usually have vanilla sex, but want to branch out:
1 Try a Toy
You don't have to try anything too crazy. Just buy a simple vibrator, so that you'll be able to experience a new sensation during sex.
2 Shower Together
Instead of having sex in your bed again, you should have sex in your shower. Just be careful, because you don't want to slip.
3 Buy Silk Sheets
This won't be a major change. However, it'll make sex feel a little more intense, because you'll have a silky material against your skin.
4 Have Sex in a New Room of the House
The bedroom isn't the only place where you should be having sex. You should be having sex on the living room couch and on the kitchen counters.
5 Read Erotic Novels
The more you read about sex, the more you'll know about it. An erotic novel might teach you moves that you never would've thought of on your own.
6 Watch Porn Together
You don't have to watch it alone. You can try watching it together to see what turns you on the most.
7 Striptease
Even if you have low confidence, you should feel comfortable enough around your partner to take off your clothes in front of him. If you aren't, then maybe he'll agree to give you a striptease instead.
8 Give Each Other Massages
Ask your partner to strip off all of his clothes so you can rub lotion across his naked body. It's a great form of foreplay.
9 Longer Foreplay
Speaking of foreplay, you should engage in it for a longer amount of time than usual. A few extra minutes can make a major difference.
10 Put on a Blindfold
You don't actually have to buy one. Just use a scarf or a tie.
11 Try New Positions
If you can't think of any new positions, there are plenty of places on the internet where you can look for ideas.
12 Bring Food into Bed
If you don't mind cleaning up your sheets, you can incorporate whipped cream into sex. Just don't get it on your genitals.
13 Buy a Sexy Board Game
There are plenty of adult board games out there. If you can't think up ideas of your own, you can steal the board game's suggestions.
14 Dirty Talk
This isn't as hard as it seems. All you really have to do is tell him what you want him to do to you and what you want to do to him.
15 Have Sex in Front of a Mirror
Stand in front of your bathroom mirror the next time you have sex. It'll be fun to look at yourselves from new angles.
16 Masturbate Together
You don't have to masturbate when you're alone in bed on the nights that he's too busy to hang out. You can do it together for a change.
17 Light Spanking
Don't hurt each other. Just give each other a few light smacks.
If you follow these tips, then your sex life will never be boring again. Do you prefer vanilla sex or exciting sex?
