If you don’t know what tantric sex is, it is essentially an ancient Hindu practice that focuses on the weaving and expansion of your energy in order to create the perfect flow and connection and bring you even greater pleasure than normal. Celebrities like Sting have spoken about the benefits and pleasures of tantric sex before, and it sounds so great that maybe it’s time for you to get involved too! If it means having better sex, then why would you now want to give it a go! Here are six tantric tips for a much better orgasm!
1. Set the Mood
A lot of pleasure comes from the mind as well as the physical sensation of touch. Tantric sex is pretty much the opposite of a quickie! It’s all about creating the right atmosphere, get those scented candles out, pick the perfect playlist, decorate the room with some beautiful flowers, make use of aromatherapy. All of these little touches will add up to make a big sexual impact.
Remember to breathe! Holding your breath for periods during sex can stop the circulation of the sexual energy through your body, so the more relaxed you are and the more you take nice deep, regular breaths, the more pleasure you are going to feel. When you feel an orgasm coming, don’t hold your breath in anticipation, instead keep them coming nice and smooth!
3. Day Time
Make more of an effort to have sex in the daytime, rather than last thing at night when both of you are drained and tired from a hard day at work. You will find that your sexual energy is much stronger the earlier you do it in the day, which makes morning sex the perfect time for a spot of tantric exploration!
4. Eye Contact
The physical nature of the pleasure will sort itself out, but it is up to you to enhance the emotional connection. An easy way to do that is to make meaning and long-lasting eye contact with your partner. This kind of sexual intimacy is what can take an average encounter and turn it in to a tantric explosion!
5. Forget the Orgasm
Don’t spend the entire time focusing on achieving your orgasm, because the more you think about it, the more elusive it is going to be. Instead, just let yourself go and enjoy each sensation as it happens. You will find that this builds up more naturally if you aren’t physically trying to intervene all the time.
6. Light Meal
The last thing you want to do is try to have this deep, meaningful, longer lasting sex if you are feeling bloated and uncomfortable. Stick to eating a very light meal at dinner if you are planning to have sex that night, or even better, skip lunch entirely if you are planning on getting lucky earlier in the afternoon!