7 Things That Make a Guy Less Attractive All Girls Should Be Aware of ...

I think all of us ladies can come to a unanimous agreement on things that make a guy less attractive. You might find a guy who seems to have it all but later on, you might discover things about him that changes the way you look at him. And I am not talking about their dark past or skeletons in their closet but some of their natural tendencies and personality characteristics. Here are the things that make a guy less attractive. Take a look and let us know if you agree!

1 Addictions

Alcohol, smoking, gambling and don’t even get me started on more serious forms of addiction, are all things that make a guy less attractive. It’s nice to see a man who is in control of himself and doesn’t depend on substances in order to function. A guy who is above the influence automatically appears more responsible and put together, which is very admirable.

2 No Ambitions

A guy with no ambitions, passions or goals is a lost cause. Looks can only take you so far, right ladies? The second you start talking to them and realize that they have no future plans, disappointment automatically sinks in! And I think that goes for anyone, male or female, because ambition, drive or determination is attractive!

3 Cockiness

A guy may be intelligent, good-looking, successful and ambitious at a first glance but the second he opens his mouth, he can ruin it all with his cockiness. Don’t get me wrong, confidence is absolutely attractive but there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance that should not be crossed!

4 Controlling Tendencies

A guy who is controlling in a relationship is a guy who should be avoided. There should be a certain level of trust and honestly between two people in order for a relationship to work. Plus once a guy is known for his controlling tendencies, his reputation goes down considerably in the eyes of other women!

5 No Hygiene and Care for Health

It is more acceptable for men to be messy than it is for women, but guys should still learn how to take care of themselves. Women always notice when a guy dresses his best, smells good or works out, just as they notice when a guy doesn’t shower or wear fresh clothes.

6 Cheap Men

I completely understand the importance of budgeting and being smart with money in today’s economy. In fact I actually admire a man who knows how to save up instead of throwing his money around, but there are some people who completely hold back from life experiences and act selfish because they are cheap. At the end of the day money is not everything!

7 Immaturity

No woman will get into a serious relationship with a guy who is still stuck in his adolescent phase. Actually I don’t think anyone wants to deal with an inexperienced and childish guy who doesn’t act his age. After all, every woman wants a man and not a boy.

While no guy is perfect and there is no Prince Charming out there, there are still some characteristics in men that most of us are not willing to deal with. These qualities are just repulsive from the start. What are some of the things that make a guy less attractive in your opinion?

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mdog90 @Nova good insight! I totally agree! Thanks for your perspective :)
JasmiN Yup! I agree with all of these
Anna I think guys who are violent are unattractive
Splashhhh To me the guy who lies is the most turn off and unatractive .
xOMiaXo Where did all the gentlemen go 😥😥😥
xOMiaXo Yes this is happening ATM
Charmagne Super true :)
Danielle Reading this actually made me feel self-conscious because I realized I have some of these traits. Some of them show up differently in men versus in women though
Courtney Preach!! 🙌 I agree with all of these. Especially when it comes to arrogance, being cheap, and not having any goals in life. GOODBYE.
Me12 So true about the immature man thing my boyfriends elder then me acts so childish I feel like dumping him
Myac2017 I agree with the majority but i feel like working out has nothing to do with hygiene.
Myac2017 When u realize this describes your bf 😧
MSed Them*
MSed Seems like my boy has like...what..4 of the
MSed I agree with all of them
Nova I agree with 1,3,4, a bit with 5,and 6. Immaturity, Let me tell you what I think, Immaturity is an illusion, if a guy skip around because hes happy when he's 10 or 12 then hes optimistic,but when the same guy does the same thing because of the same reason when hes 20-above then hes Immature... You want him to became someone that is not him to satisfied yourself,not him,he'll change for you,but there're no telling he's happy with losing himself for you. Ambition... What if he love his ambition more than you? would you still love him? Self hygiene, If you judge a person because of his appearance instead of what he think,do,do for other people,his family... I think I know one of the main reasons why alot of men are still single and look down upon...
Deep_Sorrow Lol! I kinda Laughed at 7-immaturity that means lots of Girls nowdays Dating teen Boys..no Drama But I think The teenage girl And The Tennage Boy date Each Other..its Probably One of the Worst Thing That Could Happen to Humans At this Age! Its Like Getting Drunk And don't Know anymore..Everything In That Time Will Be possbile..
Maiya You know I always said I would never be the girl who stayed with a guy who did drugs or drank excessive, and if I ever found out I was dating one such man I wouldn't be the girl who just couldn't leave him. And then I fell in love wit my best friends and everything changed. I wanted to be mad when he told me he was smoking weed but then I decided since he told me about it I would let it go and if he was responsible about it I would be okay with it. After five months of tolerating always coming second to the weed or the booze and feeling like I would ruin his high if I said something I'd finally had enough and when I confronted him about it he said he was ONLY doing it twice a week like that wasn't a lot. But that was a lie he was only doing weed twice a week but he was doing a bunch of other drugs and drinking excessively and he refused to admit he had a problem. I finally had to break up with. And it was the hardest thing I had ever needed to do and I felt as though I'd been dumped. I am 16. So is he. I realize now after two months of being without him I made the right choice. My friend was dating his friend and they were both doing drugs and getting drunk. When my friend confronted her boyfriend about it. He apologized profusely and they were able to work things out and they are still together. I still wonder what the hell their relationship had that ours didn't. But now I guess it doesn't really matter. I feel better having got all of this off of my chest. Please excuse any typos.
Samantha My girl has 1,3,4,6... I have 7 at times...I'm a woman as well...
Becko Used to like*
Becko I liked this guy who was really nice and everything but then my friend told him I liked him and now he is really rude
Joselynn I could not agree with this post more!
Jessicalove I was with a guy who would love to drink and sometimes wouldn't want to stop. If he ever got mad at me for whatever reason he would want to drink more and more and act so mean towards me. He would have the worst temper and make problems so much worse. He would be so mean and act like he didn't care how I felt if I wanted him to stop drinking. Or he would sometimes be so mean with the worst temper even when he wasn't drinking and joke around and be immature. It was the worst :/ I always tried to look past it because he was so sweet when he was actually being nice and we would do so much together and we were really close.. But it became too much and we would fight too much :/ alcohol and a bad temper are the worst! He was so mean :(
Sydney Hey guys I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years he is almost 22 years old but yet he acts so immature at times which annoys the hell out of me, he also is very unhealthy and never cleans up after himself. When he eats he ends up with food all over himself he never notices so I have to tell him. Anybody have any ideas of how I can get him to stop being like this???
Jade Well that was a long comment... Hehehe...
Dorothy Every single reason is reason enough!
Irene Dixieland, I agree with you.... I am telling you it's not worth it. I know cause I dated these people. I felt so stressed out cause of it.
Lavadee I agree with Dixieland. My soon to be ex husband belongs to this type of guys. Now he moves to live with a cougar cause I can't be a sugar mommy to him. He is older than me 3 yrs. He is too lazy to help me to build our life together.
Anna I think they're describing my brother here :O
CrazyGirl The one who brags about everything is the worst!
socheata Men who get jealous easily
Lisa i agree with Dixie. like men to be strong on the outside and a soft inside. :)
duje Men who are followers!
Dani Wow, I've dated all of them v.v

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