7 Things That Make a Guy Less Attractive All Girls Should Be Aware of ...

Addictions • No Ambitions • Cockiness • Controlling Tendencies • No Hygiene and Care for Health • More ...

7 Things That Make a Guy Less Attractive All Girls Should Be Aware of  ...
By Vladlena • Aug 31, 2024 MD

I think all of us ladies can come to a unanimous agreement on things that make a guy less attractive. You might find a guy who seems to have it all but later on, you might discover things about him that changes the way you look at him. And I am not talking about their dark past or skeletons in their closet but some of their natural tendencies and personality characteristics. Here are the things that make a guy less attractive. Take a look and let us know if you agree!

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1. Addictions

Alcohol, smoking, gambling and don’t even get me started on more serious forms of addiction, are all things that make a guy less attractive. It’s nice to see a man who is in control of himself and doesn’t depend on substances in order to function. A guy who is above the influence automatically appears more responsible and put together, which is very admirable.

2. No Ambitions

A guy with no ambitions, passions or goals is a lost cause. Looks can only take you so far, right ladies? The second you start talking to them and realize that they have no future plans, disappointment automatically sinks in! And I think that goes for anyone, male or female, because ambition, drive or determination is attractive!

3. Cockiness

A guy may be intelligent, good-looking, successful and ambitious at a first glance but the second he opens his mouth, he can ruin it all with his cockiness. Don’t get me wrong, confidence is absolutely attractive but there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance that should not be crossed!

4. Controlling Tendencies

A guy who is controlling in a relationship is a guy who should be avoided. There should be a certain level of trust and honestly between two people in order for a relationship to work. Plus once a guy is known for his controlling tendencies, his reputation goes down considerably in the eyes of other women!

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5. No Hygiene and Care for Health

It is more acceptable for men to be messy than it is for women, but guys should still learn how to take care of themselves. Women always notice when a guy dresses his best, smells good or works out, just as they notice when a guy doesn’t shower or wear fresh clothes.

6. Cheap Men

I completely understand the importance of budgeting and being smart with money in today’s economy. In fact I actually admire a man who knows how to save up instead of throwing his money around, but there are some people who completely hold back from life experiences and act selfish because they are cheap. At the end of the day money is not everything!

7. Immaturity

No woman will get into a serious relationship with a guy who is still stuck in his adolescent phase. Actually I don’t think anyone wants to deal with an inexperienced and childish guy who doesn’t act his age. After all, every woman wants a man and not a boy.

While no guy is perfect and there is no Prince Charming out there, there are still some characteristics in men that most of us are not willing to deal with. These qualities are just repulsive from the start. What are some of the things that make a guy less attractive in your opinion?

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  • Deep_Sorrow

    2014-08-25T22:04:06.066Z

    Lol! I kinda Laughed at 7-immaturity that means lots of Girls nowdays Dating teen Boys..no Drama But I think The teenage girl And The Tennage Boy date Each Other..its Probably One of the Worst Thing That Could Happen to Humans At this Age! Its Like Getting Drunk And don't Know anymore..Everything In That Time Will Be possbile..
  • Maiya

    2014-08-11T05:19:46.730Z

    You know I always said I would never be the girl who stayed with a guy who did drugs or drank excessive, and if I ever found out I was dating one such man I wouldn't be the girl who just couldn't leave him. And then I fell in love wit my best friends and everything changed. I wanted to be mad when he told me he was smoking weed but then I decided since he told me about it I would let it go and if he was responsible about it I would be okay with it. After five months of tolerating always coming second to the weed or the booze and feeling like I would ruin his high if I said something I'd finally had enough and when I confronted him about it he said he was ONLY doing it twice a week like that wasn't a lot. But that was a lie he was only doing weed twice a week but he was doing a bunch of other drugs and drinking excessively and he refused to admit he had a problem. I finally had to break up with. And it was the hardest thing I had ever needed to do and I felt as though I'd been dumped. I am 16. So is he. I realize now after two months of being without him I made the right choice. My friend was dating his friend and they were both doing drugs and getting drunk. When my friend confronted her boyfriend about it. He apologized profusely and they were able to work things out and they are still together. I still wonder what the hell their relationship had that ours didn't. But now I guess it doesn't really matter. I feel better having got all of this off of my chest. Please excuse any typos.
  • Lavadee

    2014-08-03T04:27:51.650Z

    I agree with Dixieland. My soon to be ex husband belongs to this type of guys. Now he moves to live with a cougar cause I can't be a sugar mommy to him. He is older than me 3 yrs. He is too lazy to help me to build our life together.
  • Anna

    2016-08-19T09:32:09.151Z

    I think guys who are violent are unattractive
  • Charmagne

    2016-08-19T00:11:26.316Z

    Super true :)
  • Dani

    2014-08-02T21:34:23.339Z

    Wow, I've dated all of them v.v
  • duje

    2014-08-02T21:50:28.175Z

    Men who are followers!
  • Dorothy

    2014-08-03T16:26:31.774Z

    Every single reason is reason enough!
  • Jade

    2014-08-03T18:44:08.619Z

    Well that was a long comment... Hehehe...
  • Jessicalove

    2014-08-05T04:59:39.559Z

    I was with a guy who would love to drink and sometimes wouldn't want to stop. If he ever got mad at me for whatever reason he would want to drink more and more and act so mean towards me. He would have the worst temper and make problems so much worse. He would be so mean and act like he didn't care how I felt if I wanted him to stop drinking. Or he would sometimes be so mean with the worst temper even when he wasn't drinking and joke around and be immature. It was the worst :/ I always tried to look past it because he was so sweet when he was actually being nice and we would do so much together and we were really close.. But it became too much and we would fight too much :/ alcohol and a bad temper are the worst! He was so mean :(
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