7 Things That Wont Make Him like You Less ...

7 Things That Wont Make Him like You Less ...
By Holly

Despite what you think of the male mind, there are things that won’t make him like you less. You don’t have to act like Little Miss Perfect all of the time, because your partner knows that you’re a real woman, not some photoshopped image on a page. Don’t worry, because even the things you worry about the most are things that won’t make him like you less.

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1. Differing Opinions

You don’t have to share his love for barbecuing and beef. Having different opinions is one of the things that won’t make him like you less. After all, he doesn’t want you to be an exact replica of him. You aren’t supposed to be the same. Sure, it’s great to have things in common, but your differences are what makes things exciting. Don’t be afraid to voice your own opinion.

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In fact, it's those very differences that can spark deeper conversations and build mutual respect. He'll value your unique perspectives and the way they challenge him to see the world through a different lens. So, whether it's about your latest read or your stance on environmental issues, speak your mind. Embracing your individuality doesn't just add color to the relationship; it reinforces that a healthy partnership thrives on both shared interests and divergent viewpoints. Just be sure to communicate respectfully, and you'll likely find that your differences are not just accepted, but genuinely appreciated.

2. Your Natural State

When you wake up or step out of the shower, it seems like all of your flaws are visible. You don’t have make-up on, and your hair is a mess--it’s not something that you ever want him to see. However, men know that you’re not going to look perfect all of the time. He won’t mind seeing you in your natural state. Chances are, he’ll think you look great just the way you are.

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In fact, seeing you unadorned may bring him closer because it's a sign of intimacy and trust. You're allowing him behind the scenes of your polished exterior, which usually only the closest people in your life get to see. That level of authenticity often deepens connections, and he might find it refreshing to see the real you. Embracing your imperfections can show a level of confidence which is itself incredibly attractive. Remember, to him, it’s your uniqueness, morning hair and all, that makes you, well, you.

3. Your Family

Any guy worth having won’t judge you on your family. Yes, it’s awesome when your parents get along with him however, you can’t control other’s opinions. He’ll understand that your parents aren’t a mirror image of you. You’re different people, and aren’t necessarily going to turn out the same way. Never be ashamed of your family, because the right guy won’t judge you on your genes.

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A true partner will appreciate the uniqueness of your family dynamic, knowing that it has helped shape the wonderful person you are. If dinner conversations at your place are a bit loud or if your siblings are the teasing type, a good guy will find charm in the authenticity of your interactions. Don't hide those family quirks; they're part of your story. Embrace your roots—the moments of craziness, love, and everything in between. Remember, a man who cares for you will see past the surface, cherishing the strength and love that come from being part of a family, no matter its flavor.

4. Your past Mistakes

In some cases, your past will interfere with your future. However, if you meet an amazing guy and prove to him that you won’t make the same mistakes as you used to, he shouldn’t have an issue with your past. Everyone has memories that they’re not proud of. It’s human nature to make mistakes. He’s well aware that you’re not the only one.

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5. Experience

The right guy won’t care if you’ve kissed hundreds of other boys or none at all. If you’re not the most skilled kisser, he’ll help you change that. If you’re already great at it, good for you! He can bask in your talent.

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He understands that experience – or the lack of it – is just one part of who you are and doesn't define your worth or the potential of your relationship. Your past is just a story, and if he's the one, he'll want to be part of the next chapter, not re-read the old ones. Whether you're feeling a little rusty or on top of your game, your openness and enthusiasm are what really matters. It's not about keeping score; it's about the chemistry that's unique to the two of you, and that's what will keep him enchanted.

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6. Your Job

As long as you’re attempting to support yourself, he shouldn’t care what job you hold. Whether you’re a teacher with a PhD or a bartender at a fancy restaurant, he should be proud. If you’re trying your best, how could he complain? All that matters is that you’re doing something with your life, or at least heading in the right direction.

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Remember, your career doesn't define your worth in his eyes, nor should it dictate his affection for you. Whether you're hustling at multiple jobs or steadily climbing the corporate ladder, your ambition and commitment are what truly shine. Ideally, he'll be your cheerleader, celebrating your successes and supporting you through any setbacks. Love isn't about the size of your paycheck; it's about the mutual respect and encouragement as you both pursue your passions and dreams.

7. Your Weight

This is something we all worry about, but your perfect man won’t care at all. Of course he’ll want you to be healthy, but he won’t mind if you gain a pound or two. He’s with you for your personality, not your looks. As long as you’re still the fun loving, sweet girl he fell in love with, he won’t care what the scale says.

The most important thing you can do is be yourself. Do you worry about any of these things affecting your current or future relationship?

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Great..

Ya WTF? A real man likes a real women in her natural state.

Awesome!!

I've had two kids and went from a 5 to 12 but my man loves it says I have perfect curves... Of course I think he's full of it lol

Wow... I've never heard of a man not liking my natural state. As a matter of fact I get more compliments dressed down, with no makeup! Being comfortable in your own skin and having someone appreciate you for who you TRULY are without the "enhancements" is more important.

@frenchdoll haha yes totally agree.. Moderation with the weight gain is key

I think more to the point is that some girls fear that guys won't like them for these things so the point of the list is that it shouldn't worry them... right? More to the point, I've personally been struggling with #7. The world can be pretty cruel when it comes to weight and such... :(

wow!!! i agree all. if the man really loves you from his heart, he will understand, accept and love all of you. being yourself is the most coziest zone:D

Weight...a few lbs is fine, but 20 would be a turnoff I think

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