First dates are super exciting but there are so many things that can go wrong, so it's sometimes wise to think about the ways to make a good impression on a first date. We've all heard about first date horror stories, but if you're prepared then there are ways to guarantee you'll have a fabulous time, even if it doesn't necessarily lead to a second date. So here are some ways to make a good impression on a first date.
One of the ways to make a good impression on a first date is to wear something comfortable and attractive. In any situation, being comfortable is key and a first date is no exception. I'm not talking sweat pants and sneakers, unless the date requires that, of course! Just don't wear anything that will mean you're constantly pulling your garment up or down or anything where you're going to feel self conscious. Get advice from friends and family if you're really stuck.
Being aware of your posture is also important. Try not to slouch, as it can indicate disinterest. Standing tall, on the other hand, can make you instantly taller, shows that you're confident and is an attractive trait. It also makes you appear interested and alert. But you don't want to look like a meerkat, so don't go overboard with this one!
Pay compliments to your date. Again, this needs to be done carefully as you don't want to seem overly keen or lecherous! I'm sure your date will have taken time to decide what to wear so try and come up with something more original than "I like your shirt/dress." Say something sincere and genuine.
Listen attentively to what they're saying. Eye contact is key, as is nodding and smiling. It sounds really obvious but these subtle body language clues will show you're listening. Again, don't hold their gaze for too long as this might make them feel a little uncomfortable! Also, when asking questions, try not to interrupt when they're talking.
Ask your date questions about what they do and what their interests are. Great things to talk about on a date include hobbies, family and travel destinations. This doesn't mean you have to turn into the riddler or make them feel as though they're sitting in a dark room with a light shining straight on them, but show genuine interest in what they do and their interests.
No matter what, enjoy yourself. Smile and be happy. This is a very attractive trait so try to avoid talking about anything negative, like how much you hate your job and your boss. As tempting as it might be, avoid talking about how much you hate your ex partner and the fact that you're secretly wishing a freak tornado would wipe them off the face of the earth!
Always thank your date at the end of it. Remember the good manners your mama taught you! And be careful where alcohol is concerned. Yes, you might be a little nervous and fancy a drink but don't go overboard, as this will only end in tears and you'll most certainly end up doing something you'll later regret.
These are just a few ways to make a great impression on that all important first date. Can you think of anything else?
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