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7 Things You Shouldn't Rush into in Relationships ...

By Holly

It doesn't matter how badly you want a husband and kids, because you can't rush through a relationship. You need to take your time and get to know the guy you're dating before you can vow to spend the rest of our life with him. Besides, why would you want your life to move by too quickly? You should enjoy every second instead of waiting for the future to arrive. In order to do that, here are a few things you shouldn't rush into in a relationship:

1 Having Sex

Having Sex Never have sex unless you're completely comfortable with the idea. You don't want to end up regretting your decision. If your partner loves you, you won't have to worry about him leaving you, just because you refused to take your clothes off for him. He'll be patient and understanding, which means he'll wait as long as he has to to sleep with you.

2 Moving in Together

Moving in Together Moving in together is a huge step. If it doesn't work out and you decide to break up with him, then one of you will end up with no place to live. That's why you want to be sure about your feelings for your partner before you start house hunting. It's not something you should be doing after only one month of dating.

3 Getting Married

Getting Married There's no reason to rush into marriage. If you love someone, then you're going to stay with them whether or not there's a ring on your finger. If you don't have the money or the time for a wedding right now, hold off on your plans.

4 Introducing Him to Your Parents

Introducing Him to Your Parents You don't want to introduce your parents to every guy you sleep with. That's why it's best for you to really get to know your partner before introducing them to your parents. That way, you won't force your family to meet men that are going to be out of your life soon, anyway.

5 Having Children

Having Children Don't have children, just because your biological clock is ticking. You have more time than you realize. Enjoy being young and childless while you can, because kids are a huge responsibility. There's nothing wrong with waiting a few years to have them.

6 Going on Your First Date

Going on Your First Date If you have a crush on a guy, you don't have to ask him out right away. It might be better for you two to get to know each other before actually dating. If you develop a strong friendship with him, it'll be easier for you to transition into dating him.

7 Saying “i Love You”

Saying “i Love You” You shouldn't say those three little words until you're entirely sure that they're the truth. Some people fall in love fast, which means that they'll admit their love after a few months of dating. Other people, however, take years to develop feelings that strong. Don't feel bad if you're making your boyfriend wait to hear that special phrase, because he wouldn't want you to lie to him about it. It's better to wait, so you can say the words genuinely.

Take your time when it comes to relationships, because if you're with the right guy, you'll have the whole rest of your lives to get married and move in together. Have you ever rushed into any of these things too soon and ended up regretting it?

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