You're single, you're not dead. That means you can still enjoy life. Having a boyfriend isn't everything, you know. There are plenty of unattached women who are just as happy (if not happier) than married women. Even if you're upset about your single status, here are a few things you shouldn't waste your time doing:
Everyone has different taste. Some men will think you're unattractive, but others will think you're the most beautiful woman they've ever seen. Don't take it to heart when someone rejects you. It's his loss. Besides, staying single will assure that you're available when Mr. Right finally comes along.
If your friends refuse to see a certain movie with you, go to the theater alone. You can sit at a restaurant by yourself, as well. It's not as embarrassing as you're imagining it will be. No one is going to stare at you. No one is going to make a comment. No one is going to judge. So if you're in the mood for Applebees, go get a table and enjoy a meal all by your lonesome.
There are thousands of gorgeous, talented, valuable women who are unattached, so don't fool yourself into believing there's something wrong with you. You're not single, because you're ugly. It's not because you're boring, either. It's because you haven't run into the right guy yet. So don't blame yourself for something that isn't your fault.
Don't spend all day in bed, because you "don't have anything better to do." Being single is no reason for you to waste your life. There's a whole world out there for you to explore, so do something productive with your time. Fill out job applications, invite your friends over, or at least clean up your house. Do something to take your mind off of your misery. Pretty soon, you'll forget that you were even upset in the first place.
You shouldn't be depressed about being unattached. Think about all of your friends who have horror stories to tell about their boyfriends. It's better to be alone than to be in an unhealthy relationship, so you should be proud of being single. Besides, a boyfriend isn't everything. There's so much more to worry about. Instead of focusing on finding love, you can focus on another area of your life, like your career.
Don't sit around, waiting for your life to change. You're in charge of your future, so it's time to take control. If you want to ask a guy out, ask him out. If you want to meet new people, then leave your house. If you want to be happy, then take steps toward happiness.
Jealousy can kill your spirit. That's why you need to learn to come to peace with the fact that some people are in happy relationships. If you can't stand looking at pictures of your gal pals with their boyfriends, then take a break from social media. There's no reason to torture yourself.
Dating is fine. But if you're not ready or you just don't want to, then don't feel you have to date because you're single.
Okay single ladies this ones important! Don't feel like to maintain single lady status you have to be a player or sleep with anything with a pulse. Just be single and do you! (No pun intended)
Being a 3rd wheel is no fun, but that doesn't mean you have to ignore every friend who's happily shacking up. Instead arrange girls nights or even sacrifice and be the 3rd wheel once in a while if your friend promises a night away from her man in exchange.
Being single doesn't mean there's something wrong with you which means you don't need to run out and have the world's biggest makeover. You're fine as you are-even without a man!
Just because you're riding solo now doesn't mean you will be forever. Don't try to convince everyone you're forever alone and don't feel like you need to alert the media of your singleton status.
A boyfriend won't turn your whole life around. It's up to you to do that. Are you proud of being single?
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