7 Tips on How to Build Trust when Youre in a Long-Distance Relationship ...

By Corina • Apr 27, 2014

If you and your partner live a couple of hours or even two time zones apart from each other, you should learn how to build trust when you’re in a long distance relationship. . Long-distance relationships do create extra challenges and stressors and you might have to overcome quite a lot of difficult obstacles, but if you trust each other, you can cultivate a very happy and fulfilling relationship. Here are a few very useful tips on how to build trust when you’re in a long distance relationship.

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1. Don’t Keep Secrets

One of the most important things you should do if you want to know how to build trust when you’re in a long distance relationship is to never keep secrets. They will only make you doubt each other. I’m not saying you should tell your partner right from the start your deepest and darkest secrets. Just make sure you don’t hide important information, since this could really damage your relationship.

2. Make Sure Your Words and Actions Match

To build trust in your long-distance relationship, make sure your words and actions always match. For example, if you say that you are going home to call your partner at a certain hour, then make sure you do that. If you can't be there on time, send them a message and explain. This shows you are an honest person who has nothing to hide and who always keeps their promises.

3. Be Realistic

Try not to have unrealistic expectations when you’re in a long-distance relationship. It’s not always easy to make a this kind of relationship work and you need to accept the fact that you might have to overcome a lot of obstacles and face all kinds of difficult challenges to be happy. You must be prepared to handle the distance and you must be willing to make a lot of sacrifices if you want your love to prevail.

4. Communicate Every Day

When you’re in a long-distance relationship, it’s extremely important for you and your partner to communicate every day. Even if you don’t enjoy talking on the phone or sending texts, make sure you make the time to do it, since communication is the key to a happy and fulfilling relationship. I’m sure you have a lot of beautiful things you can share with each other, so why not do it more often?

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. See Each Other Regularly

Always find a way to visit each other regularly. Don’t let anything separate you and work on your trust issues, so that nothing can come between you. Schedule your days off in order to match your partner’s free time and decide who will visit whom and how often.

6. Surprise Your Partner

What better way to strengthen your relationship than by surprising your partner on a regular basis? If you have the possibility, you could make them a spontaneous surprise visit.. You will be there by their side and this way; the distance that usually separates you will not seem like such a challenge anymore.

7. Have Faith in Your Partner

Even if this may seem a bit hard to accomplish sometimes, have faith in your partner and if they tell you that they are doing a certain thing, then believe them and take their word for it. I’m sure you do know that everyone is innocent until proven guilty. So, if you don’t have any reasons to question what they’ve told you, control your jealousy and don’t let doubt cloud your judgment.

A long-distance relationship requires a lot of hard work, but if you are willing to make a few small sacrifices just to keep your love intact, then distance will not stand in the way of your happiness. Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship? How was it? Do you know any other tips on how to build trust in a long-distance relationship? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!

Sources:
modernghana.com
everydaylife.globalpost.com
psychcentral.com

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  • Kit

    2014-04-27T21:14:39.341Z

    I'm in a long distance relationship. One thing that is normal in a relationship is to fight. And if there aren't any fights it might mean some one is hiding something from the other. My boyfriend and I always talk everything out till we come to an agreement and we feel content with the solution. And it's good to be honest about how you are feeling and not get too caught up in the relationship so that you're only in it to please him. You have to be happy too!
  • Tiffany

    2014-04-27T20:32:29.077Z

    I have a long distance relationship, and we plan to get married next year.
  • Anam

    2014-04-27T20:12:09.990Z

    I think no.7 is specifically written for me
  • Jordan

    2014-04-27T19:28:16.469Z

    I am in one right now and it is fabulous. We don't always get to talk or see each other as much as id like but it is so worth it ❤️
  • Louisa

    2014-04-27T21:33:54.873Z

    I'm in a long distance relationship. I hope everything will be okay and wish you all to handle and pass this difficult period in your life
  • Aparna

    2014-04-27T21:34:45.064Z

    I've been in one for more than two years now. As Kit Kat said, there will be fights, but you have to be honest with each other. My bf and I don't fight often but when we do, we always end up forgiving each other and making amends. It's almost refreshing, and only makes our relationship stronger :) So.. Trust your partner and BE honest. Or else, ldrs won't work.
  • Wildrose07

    2014-04-28T12:00:05.506Z

    Going on two years and had no idea how much I would grow to dislike the 50 minute drive. In the beginning I didn't mind it because all I wanted to do was see him. I made a lot more sacrifices doing that than him, and it finally caught up with me. It doesn't help that I've become an instrumental partner so to speak, in helping his business (estate sales) so I help him fairly regularly, which means sometimes I only see him for WORK in our now only twice a week get togethers. We ask each other to come one way each week, and usually on the wknds. This makes for a long week in between. I recently brought up the marriage idea, (I'm 53, he's 54) and he reminded me that from the beginning he said he never wanted to get married. (I thought that might change...). Then we did the hard core discussion of living together and meeting in the middle and he WANTS to live together, but doesn't want to sell or move out of the first house he ever owned and fixed up on his own. We both have kids, me - full time, him part time, and the 'plan' was to wait until the kids were through high school, which is in two MORE years. It's hard, when you live two lives... Separately, for the most part. Not really sure the benefits of being in the relationship are worth two more years of this long distance challenge. He does not have an office per say, and my work is return client based and after 3 years, I am finally getting a solid foundation, which makes it hard to move very far. Not to sound totally discouraged and discouraging but that's how I'm feeling lately. It takes a monumental amount of work, but I think relationship wise it's one of my best ever. What to do, what to do...
  • Rowena

    2014-05-03T08:37:10.316Z

    I have been in a LDR for almost 11 months & everytime we fight with my bf but lately we both change for the better..we became more understanding to each other & accept our mistakes..now we are ok :) & as days passed by our love stay stronger because we are soulmate :) & if fate & destiny brings us together only time can tell :)
  • Shasha

    2014-04-27T19:31:14.664Z

    Great advice
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