Your first love is the hardest to get over, but there are tips to get over your first love that do really work, if you use them. There are many times when you never, truly get over your first experiences with love and romance, but these tips to get over your first love can help ease the pain. It's going to be hard, but it is so worth getting over and so worth moving on.
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1. Don't Keep Reminiscing
There are tons of times that you are going to dwell on the past, times that you are going to go back into your memories and draw from them, but don't do it right away. Try not to think about the past, try not to dwell on your ex boyfriend or girlfriend. This is one of the many tips to get over your first love that can save you a lot of heartache and pain.
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Reminiscing can often turn into a cycle that fuels your pain and prevents you from moving forward. While it's natural to reflect on the sweetness of your first love, constant dwelling can keep those emotional wounds fresh. It's essential to give yourself the space to heal. Redirect your focus to the present and future—you have so many new experiences and opportunities waiting for you. Your personal growth and happiness are now the top priority, and though it's not easy, learning to let go of the past is a vital step in that journey.
2. Give Yourself Time to Grieve
However, even though I don't want you to dwell on the past, you've got to give yourself some time to grieve the relationship. You have to do this with every relationship, but your first love is going to be the hardest. It can take months, even years to fully get over your first love, but as time passes, it does get easier.
3. Remember, You Will Love Again
Just because you got burned doesn't mean that you'll never, ever love again. Don't think like that. To be honest, you'll probably love a lot sooner than you expect, especially if someone really clicks with you. Don't rush love of course, but don't ever think that you aren't going to love again.
4. Let Your Emotions Heal
You've been burned. You've been hurt. That takes a lot of time to get over and it takes a lot of time for your emotions to heal themselves. Don't jump immediately into another relationship, just because you want to find that feeling you experienced with your ex again. You might not feel that for a while, just let it happen.
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5. Support Groups
Support groups within your family and friends are going to be a lifesaver for you. Remember, this is your first love, it is so much different than any other love you experience. Support groups are going to save your life and really make sure that your emotions heal a lot quicker.
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6. It'll Be Worse before It Gets Better
When you are trying to get over your first love, you've got realize that it is going to get a lot worse before it gets better. You are going to feel horrible and you are going to be upset a lot, but that doesn't mean that it'll never, ever get better. It will, you've just got to let it.
7. Write in a Journal
When I was trying to get over my first love, I started a journal that I could write in. That really helped me get through the bad times, and I could actually look back and see exactly what I was feeling during those times. Start a journal, it really does help!
8. Let Yourself Cry
Finally, let yourself cry whenever it feels right. If you bottle it all up, it will only make it worse. You've got to let yourself extract all of those emotions that you have pent up instead of keeping them inside. Trust me on this one!
So, if you're having problems getting over your first love, take a look at our tips! They do work and while I know it is hard, it is so worth it to follow these tips. So, what was your experience with getting over your first love?
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Comments
lala: It's been 4 months and I'm still dealing with the breakup... But reading this helps a lot thanks!!!
Bluish: I just got my first break up and it hurts..thank you for posting this article.. I think this will help me since I dunno what to do with this very first break up..
nat: Look i dont know much about relationships because ive always been in one while my friends were partying BUT what i do know is this- if that person loves you give them sometime to clear their head and they might just try to contact you.
Soomin: When I confess to my first crush, he reject me and believe me I was devastated and I was miserable. But I found out something that help me get over it, my friends. They would say to me one thing that I always remember forever "A man that make a girl cry out of sadness is the man that don't deserve u" so girls, it's not he end of the world. Even though it hurt like hell but give it some time and find someone that u love, like a friend, to cheer u up. It's not the end. "When one door closed, another will open" Always remember that!
cynthia: Its been 4 months since me
Emily: Much needed!!! After 7.5 years and the following weekend there's someone new. Journal has helped and a goal of achievements I want to reach this year for me! One thing not to do, drink!!! Until you know your ready to deal with that.
Anna: Totally helped:))
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