Do you want to be happy in your relationship? Then it’s time to really start listening to your heart, but follow your mind. Life's too minuscule to explore every little part of you.
Sometimes, you got to be strong no matter what stones life throws at you. Every relationship has ups and downs, and it’s never perfect. If you hate being in the situation, don’t admire the bond, be prepared for the rift.
Don’t let anybody teach you how to fall when you just started to fly. Don’t let anybody alienate you from the world when you just started to explore it. Don't let anyone curse you dreams when you just started to live them. Don't let them question who you are when you already found yourself.
Here are 9 ways that can help you become happy in your relationship when nothing seems to go right.
1 Do NOT FEAR ANYTHING
Life grows where fears die. Do not be afraid of something you can't live without. Every right thing isn't a good thing. Maybe you belong to a different world where you find yourself gathered with joy. Love is hard to find, so is respect and care. Let go of things that hold you back.
2 THERE ARE NO WORDS like SUPERIOR or INFERIOR
Love is when you hold someone's hand and walk together towards the shore, not when you leave the hand and expect someone to follow you. The word "together" doesn't have exceptions. If you vow to be "with" someone, you do not have to rule or set boundaries.
3 UNDERSTANDING is a PRIORITY
Sometimes, you just want someone to sit right in front of you and ask you about what's going on in your mind. You need someone who'll hold your hand and listen to every bit of your worries. Someone who will ensure you that your heart is safe.
4 STUDY YOUR FLAWS
When someone constantly blames you, you start assuming it's your fault the next time when something happens. And it's all in your mind. You forget you can turn the dust into sparkles, you forget who you really are. Well, that's what u need to remind yourself everyday, so you could be proud of yourself even when the darkness steals the light away.
5 GO WHERE HAPPINESS TAKES YOU
One should rather pick up a few good clips of heaven than to constantly endure in hell. If the "unhappy" term exists in your relationship, it's important to work on it. What truly matters is that it is better to be happy than to be perfect. If you fail, maybe it’s time to look at the roads waiting for you. It can be a tough time, but nobody ever guaranteed that it is going to be easy.
6 BE CONFIDENT
You got to stand up tall and prove your worth. Be kind but never feel weak for the person you are. This life is yours, don't let anybody boycott it. Feel alive! Kick those rocks away, endure because it's worth it. Wear a smile, show it off because you're the most beautiful thing in this world.
7 DON’T KEEP THINGS BOTTLED up
You should apologize for the mistakes you did in the relationship, after all, perfect doesn't exist. Don’t be so hard on yourself, be the first one to say you’re sorry even though you got to walk away. At least you don't have to carry a burden of mistakes or misunderstandings.
8 TAKE IT SLOW
Giving someone time to think is important, but most of all, taking time for yourself is. There is something that has been waiting for your attention, something which is dedicated to you. Time won’t stop but you can stop to analyze what’s more crucial for you.
Respect the disparity in thoughts, don't make a cloud of misunderstandings. You know it’s bad when you feel pissed off, but it’s always better to keep the bad words locked up. Talk right or say nothing at all. Don't spoil the peace. Be good because best doesn't last long.