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9 Ways to Tell That You're in Love ...

By Ebangha

There are just so many ways to tell that you're in love. Others may see it in you every day. You, well you are just not so sure. That is perfectly ok. Take your time and figure it out for yourself. This post should really be a sort of guide for you. Just use the following ways to tell that you're in love.

1 Your Smile Has Changed

This is one of the easiest ways to tell that you're in love. Your smile can tell you everything that you need to know. If you find yourself smiling from genuine happiness all of the time then maybe you're in love. Life seems brighter and your smile will reflect that.

2 Your Outlook on Life is Different

…But in a good way. You suddenly see possibilities for the two of you that seem endless. You think in a more positive manner. You do not know exactly what the future looks like for the two of you, but something about that mystery excites you. All in all, you look forward to getting to know you’re guy better.

3 The Glow

Love has this way of making people glow. You know like the way cartoon characters look when they’re an angel. When you’re in love, others can see you’re glowing without the help of an animation team. They will just look at you and know. People will be able to tell that you are happy and content.

4 You Are Kinder

Love has a way of humbling the very being of who we are. If it is true love, your heart will become kinder. You will find yourself filled will compassion and real empathy for others. You will not feel the need to go along with negative feelings. Setbacks will seem like stepping stones. A little love can really help you grow into a kinder person.

5 For His Best Interest

Real love will make you ooze with selflessness. Instead of always focusing on you and your will, you will begin to put your guy’s best interest in front of yours every once in a while. You might do little things for him here and there. You might even find it hard to argue with him because you’re both so willing to compromise for the sake of the other.

6 The Relationship Feels Genuine

Like the old saying, when’s it’s good, it’s good. You will just know when a relationship feels right. You know, like God mending and molded it to fit you and your life just right. You will be comfortable around him. At one point you might even think that this is someone you can see yourself marrying. If someone around you criticizes your relationship, you defend it because you know just how good it really is on the inside.

7 He’s Always on Your Mind

You wake up and wonder if he’s up too. You make breakfast and hope that he’s enjoying the same. Someone starts a conversation, and you want to find a way to bring him up. When he’s always on your mind, you just know that he has found a way into your heart as well.

8 You Want to Become a Better Person

Love should make you strive to become a better person. And no, you do not want to be better for yourself. No. You want to become a better person for your significant other. You want him to have the best people in his life, so you take extra care each day to become a better person. You try not to be selfish. You insist on being there for him. When he said he needs time or space apart, you respect that.

9 You’re Becoming a Better Person

Like the point before, you want to become a better person, so over time you do. You become the best person that you can be. Others can see that you have changed for the better. It is said that love can ignite something in you. Well, when you are in love, you will see that. True love should have to power to change your heart to be more forgiving, accepting, and loving towards others.

There are no for sure ways to know if you are really in love that will work for every single person. Each person is totally different. You just have to listen to your heart and feel things through. Have you ever been in love?

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