7 Conversation Starters to Use with a Guy You're Crushing on ...


Striking up the courage to talk to a guy you’re crushing on can be nerve-wracking, and searching for the perfect conversation starters can be equally as frightening.

However, there are extreme upsides to taking the lead in flirting with a guy.

By starting the conversation, you’re showing initiative and proving your confidence.

So go ahead, take a look at this list of conversation starters and try putting some of them to the test!

1. Proudest Moment

A friend of mine suggested that one of the most interesting conversation starters is to ask a guy what his proudest moment is.

This can open up the doorway to several new topics, and will definitely teach you a lot about who you’re talking to.

Funniest Moment


My fanboy friend and I used to talk about fandoms and things we liked; good times Or you could get to know, you know, the deep stuff. Like "what's your favorite color?" -Catching Fire, Peeta
@Emily Logan hey babe just sayin I like girls;)
@Kymie hey gurl do u enjoy baths coz I do
@Audrey Christine Renk guten tag ich bin die lov moktor. Just sayin gurl I take baths with a frog at night. Just something to consider to do with ur pet xx69
These are terrible I don't agree my sexy frog and me don't need conversation starters. We r so natural together. Usually wen we do talk he says will-u-talk dirty to me. So how about that girls. Talk dirty to ur man. My hottie of a frog lurvs it. He knows wat I need New York to Haiti. My booty doesn't need explaining. He's that flight that I get on.i know the words to his songs. Our conversations don't take long gurls but u know wat does😉.xxx69;)
@Biba Salem, Hi Biba, I should clarify--these are ideas for topics of conversation to have with a guy in such situations as a first date or after having met at a bar, etc. These ideas are to help when you feel stuck and don't know where to take the conversation, not necessarily something you should say as the first introductory statement. I agree, it would be weird to go up to a guy and say "Hey! I'm ___, who would play you in a movie?" !!
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