Hard Truths πŸ˜” about Relationships πŸ’‘ Both Partners ✌🏼 Should Realize πŸ’­ ...

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The world would be a magical place if we all found love and it was romance and roses and we all lived happily ever after.

However, the world of Disney only exists in fairytales and in real life love is exquisitely joyful and excruciatingly painful and everything in between.2

And we have to accept the hard truths of relationships in order to be successful at them.

1. You Might Always Love Each Other, but There Will Definitely Be Times when You do Not like Each Other!

You Might Always Love Each Other, but There Will Definitely Be Times when You do Not like Each Other!

2. Similarly, You May Not Always Find Them Attractive Every Single Second of Every Single Day

Similarly, You May Not Always Find Them Attractive Every Single Second of Every Single Day

3. You Will Definitely Feel Irritated by the Smallest Things at One Point or Another

You Will Definitely Feel Irritated by the Smallest Things at One Point or Another

4. You Will Find That You do Not Always Miss Them when They Have Gone Away for a Period

You Will Find That You do Not Always Miss Them when They Have Gone Away for a Period

5. You Will Definitely Feel Some Degree of Boredom at Least a Few Times, but That’s Natural

You Will Definitely Feel Some Degree of Boredom at Least a Few Times, but That’s Natural

6. You Will, at Least Once, Find Yourself Wondering if the Grass is Greener on the Other Side

You Will, at Least Once, Find Yourself Wondering if the Grass is Greener on the Other Side

7. Even Though You Are Together, You May Find That You Experience Periods of Loneliness

Even Though You Are Together, You May Find That You Experience Periods of Loneliness

8. Your Partner is Not a Carbon Copy of Yourself, so Be Prepared for Fundamental Differences

Your Partner is Not a Carbon Copy of Yourself, so Be Prepared for Fundamental Differences
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9. Your Heart is Fragile, and It Will Open and Close without Warning during the Relationship

Your Heart is Fragile, and It Will Open and Close without Warning during the Relationship
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10. Your Sex Life Might Not Always Be as Good as It is Right Now

Your Sex Life Might Not Always Be as Good as It is Right Now

11. And in Conjunction, You May Find That You Don’t Want to Have as Much Sex as You Used to

And in Conjunction, You May Find That You Don’t Want to Have as Much Sex as You Used to

12. Being in Love but Still Being Somewhat Indifferent Can Be a Real Thing

Being in Love but Still Being Somewhat Indifferent Can Be a Real Thing

13. You Will Go through Periods of Feeling Connected and the Disconnected from Your Partner

You Will Go through Periods of Feeling Connected and the Disconnected from Your Partner

14. You Need to Embrace Both the Good and the Bad in Your Relationship

You Need to Embrace Both the Good and the Bad in Your Relationship

15. The Feeling of Fear is a Real Part of Being in Love, so Don’t Hide from It, Confront It

The Feeling of Fear is a Real Part of Being in Love, so Don’t Hide from It, Confront It
However, It Might Not Always Feel like True Fear, It Could Manifest in Numbness or Ambivalence
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