How to Deal with Sex That Sucks ...

169
COMMENT

Sex should be pleasurable.

It should make you smile and feel happy.

It should make you feel closer to your partner and strengthen your emotional and physical bond.

But when sex is bad, it sucks in so many ways.

But women don’t have to just lie back and think of England anymore.

We have the right to good sex.

Good sex is good for us, our partner and our relationship.

Don’t put up with bad sex – do something about it.

1. Give Him Options

One way of how to tell him he’s lousy in bed without really hurting his feelings is to give him some options and ideas yourself that might help him to give you (and him) a better experience.

A man’s sexual ego can be a very fragile thing, so the best way to get around is to encourage him to do more without letting on that what he is already doing is not great at all!2

2. Verbal Encouragement

You can sort of guide him to the right actions by verbally encouraging when he starts to do something that you actually enjoy.

The more you tell him that its feels great when he does β€˜that’, the more he will do it!

Sometimes guys like a little feedback with regards to which of their moves makes women feel good, so don’t be afraid to voice your opinions and guide him towards giving you more pleasure!

3. Take Control

Hey, if what he’s doing isn’t doing it for you, then it’s time to mix things up and take control in order to guide the love making in a direction that pleases you as much as it pleases him.

Hopefully he will be perceptive and pick up on what makes you hot and bothered and he can learn for future reference what parts of your sex life are your favorite and what parts you skipped all together!

Also, it’s good for you to take turns in control;

sexual equality for all!

Try Different Positions
Explore more ...