How to Deal with Sex That Sucks ...

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Sex should be pleasurable.

It should make you smile and feel happy.

It should make you feel closer to your partner and strengthen your emotional and physical bond.

But when sex is bad, it sucks in so many ways.

But women don’t have to just lie back and think of England anymore.

We have the right to good sex.

Good sex is good for us, our partner and our relationship.2

Don’t put up with bad sex – do something about it.

1. Give Him Options

One way of how to tell him he’s lousy in bed without really hurting his feelings is to give him some options and ideas yourself that might help him to give you (and him) a better experience.2

A man’s sexual ego can be a very fragile thing, so the best way to get around is to encourage him to do more without letting on that what he is already doing is not great at all!

Verbal Encouragement

Comments:

RhondaJames
God forbid the man who doesn't look after my interests as well as his own.
Moriano
Sometimes you gotta fake it to you make it
Sabra Jade
He never tells me when he's going to come! He just does it like bing badda bam! I'm usually not ready so end up feeling disappointed after sex.
Katie
The worst is when they don't try. I hate it when men think that their pleasure is the only thing that matters.
BrittanyBAKER
Bad sex is the worst!
Lisa Marie
This is difficult to deal with
Tiffany
He struggled with first time nerves for awhile, but when he got over it out sex life improved immensely
Wendy
Practice
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