Have you recently been having thoughts about spicing things in the bedroom? Are you bored of the normal vanilla sex that you are having with your partner? If so, then maybe it’s time to try out something different! The world of kink and fetish can seem a little daunting from the outside, but the great thing about it is that there is pretty much something for everyone to get into! If you want to start slow, then how about some simple punishment and reward play? Here is how to introduce punishment and reward to your sex life.
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1. Bedroom Fun
Punishment and reward is a great way to add some control in to your relationship, and whilst your man might not appreciate this kind of behaviour in normal day to day life, when it comes to the bedroom, he will see the fun side in the give and take of it without even realising that you are actually making him your bitch!
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Punishment and reward can be a great way to add some spice to a relationship in the bedroom. It can be a fun way to explore power dynamics between partners, and it doesn't have to be serious or overwhelming. By introducing punishments and rewards, partners can explore different roles and enjoy the give and take of control. This can be done through activities such as spanking, role-playing, or using props such as handcuffs and blindfolds. It is important to communicate boundaries and to make sure that both partners are comfortable with the activities. With the right attitude and communication, punishment and reward can be a great way to add some kinky fun to the bedroom.
2. You First
The first one you can try out is the rule that if he doesn’t make you cum first during sex, then you get to spank him afterwards! It adds more motivation for him to pleasure you at the same time as getting his own rocks off.
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This rule is an interesting way to introduce punishment and rewards into a kinky sex life. It can add more excitement and anticipation to the bedroom, as both partners strive to please each other. The spanking can be light and playful, or it can be more intense depending on the couple's preferences. The punishment should be discussed beforehand and should be something both partners are comfortable with. It's important to remember that the goal is to make sex enjoyable for both partners, not to make one partner feel uncomfortable or disrespected.
Frequently asked questions
3. Oral Every Night
He has to give you oral sex every single night for a week, and if he doesn’t, he has to clean the house from top to bottom!
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This particular punishment and reward involves oral sex. The reward is that for a week, the partner must give the other partner oral sex every night. If the partner does not fulfill this obligation, then the other partner can demand that the guilty partner clean the house from top to bottom. This punishment and reward can be used to spice up a kinky sex life and keep it interesting. It is important to remember to keep communication open and honest between partners to ensure that both parties are comfortable with the arrangement and that it is consensual.
4. 10 Minutes
He has to make sure that he provides at least ten minutes of penetration before he cums, and if he can’t give you that, he has to go down on you to make sure that he finished the job good and proper!
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This text is referring to a BDSM practice known as 'edge play', where the goal is to bring someone close to orgasm without allowing them to actually cum. In this context, the man must provide at least 10 minutes of penetration before he can cum. If he can't manage this, he must go down on the other person to ensure they are satisfied. Edge play can be an exciting way to spice up a sex life, but it should be practiced with caution and communication between partners. All activities and expectations should be discussed beforehand to ensure everyone is comfortable and safe.
5. Blowjob Wake up
You have to promise to wake him up one day with a blowjob, and if you don’t follow through, you have to do it at another time of his choosing. In front of the TV when the sport is on is always a popular choice!
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This text suggests a playful way for couples to introduce punishment and rewards into their sex life. The reward suggested is to wake up your partner with a blowjob, and the punishment is to provide the blowjob at a time of their choosing. This could be in front of the TV when their favorite sports team is playing. This type of playful reward and punishment system can be an exciting way to spice up a couple's sex life.
6. 69 Contest
Perform the 69 position on each other and whoever has an orgasm first is the loser of the game, and the loser is then tasked with making a slap up bed and breakfast the next morning!
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