We all know that looking for signs he's about to break up with you isn't easy to admit to yourself. Wouldn't you rather be prepared for the break up than be surprised though? I've actually come up with the top 7 very telling signs he's about to break up with you and jet out the door. I know it's hard, but you should definitely watch out for these signs he's about to break up with you so you can prepare yourself emotionally.
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1. Becomes Distant
If you are noticing that your man is becoming extremely distant. Almost as if he is not even present when he is right with you, it could be one of the signs he's about to break up with you. It means that his mind is somewhere else and that maybe, he isn't ready to keep his commitment to you.
2. Doesn't Return Calls
Every relationship goes through the time period of a man not returning his girlfriend's calls, but if he does not return your call for a few days in a row, it could be a sign he's about to break up with you. I would confront him, I would ask him about it. It's the only way you'll know for sure what he is up to and why he isn't returning your calls.
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3. Ignores You
Whether you are in public or in private, if your man seems to be ignoring you a lot, it could be one of the signs he's about to break up with you. Now, I don't mean that he ignores particular sentences or it's hard to get his attention, but if he is actively ignoring everything you say or constantly checking his phone, it could definitely be a sign he's about to split.
4. Gets Frustrated Easily
Typically, when a guy doesn't know exactly how to tell a girl that he doesn't want to be with her, he'll get frustrated easier with her and he'll start snapping at her. This will, in turn, push her away and drive her to break up with him. It's one of the ways that many men use to get out of their relationships.
5. Starts Fights over Nothing
This is another way that men use to make a girl break up with them. If he is constantly starting fights over the stupidest things, it could be a sign he's about to break up with you or that he wants you to break up with him. Trust me, talking it out with him could save your relationship, maybe he is just feeling insecure about the relationship and needs some reassurance!
6. Gone All of the Time
A good boyfriend is a guy that is really there for his girlfriend and typically let his girl know exactly where he is most of the time. If your guy is gone for days at a time and you don't know where he is, that isn't a good sign. This is another one that you're going to want to confront him about and see where his head is at!
7. Inconsiderate
Finally, if the guy that you are dating becomes super inconsiderate all of the time, that could be a sign that he's want out of the relationship, but doesn't know how to go about it. Truthfully girls, nobody should ever be mean to you and you should have a guy that is super thoughtful. If your guy isn't, it's time to get rid of him!
So ladies, now that you know all of the signs he's about to break up with you, why not get ahead of the game? If you are seeing some of these signs he's about to break up with you, confront him about it! So ladies, how do you get over a breakup if he does happen to go through with it? Any tips?
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Angelina: Hi Heather Jensen, my BF mention me as your words. He said he's really busy. He answer my phone. But he never call me. He said he's disappoint on me and if I want him, I should try to get his mind. After we broke up, I'm so unhappy and I want him back. Plz give me advice. What should I do?
Anon: I have been seeing this guy for 5 months. Everything was great and we were just seeing eachother but he but me dinner and dropped me home said he really likes me and cares about me so much. And started being distant for about 2 months and now he can't even tell me whether he is still interested or not?! What does this mean if he can't even tell me if he is still interested? Please help I'm going crazy :-(
lisa: ive seen all the signs after 8 yrs im so over his drama and im going to keep moving
Lateesha: We live together so some of these don't really apply, but he does sometimes show these signs even though he is intimate with me and has cute and romantic and thoughtful moments or days.im torn, I don't know what to do.
Heather: My fiance of four years and I broke up in October of this year and he had each and every one of these signs except for the "being out all night" one. I wish I had found this list sooner.
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