Fantasies, we all have them, and we shouldn’t be ashamed of them! Having sexual fantasies is a totally normal and healthy way for you to express your sexuality, but did you know that your own top fantasy might not be as individual to you as you think? On the whole, it turns out that us humans are pretty predictable when it comes to what turns us on the most. Here is a list of the seven most common sexual fantasies that people have admitted to having, is yours detailed below? I’ll bet you ten dollars that it is!
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1. Multi-Partner Sex
This is a super common fantasy. You can be totally in love and committed to a partner but still get hot under the collar at the thought of inviting a third party into the bedroom. Threesomes, foursomes and even more-somes are becoming an ever-increasing reality for people are who being brave enough to follow their fantasy!
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This is a super common fantasy. You can be totally in love and committed to a partner but still get hot under the collar at the thought of inviting a third party into the bedroom. Threesomes, foursomes, and even more-somes are becoming an ever-increasing reality for people who are brave enough to follow their fantasy! The intriguing dynamic of different personalities and sexual energies can greatly enhance the experience. Exploring these desires with open communication and mutual consent can be incredibly fulfilling. Adding extra partners can be a way to explore boundaries and deepen the sexual connection among everyone involved.
2. BDSM
You can probably thank the popularity of Fifty Shades for this one! Thanks to Christian Grey and his dark delights, interest in BDSM across all demographics has seen a sharp rise. From little things like spanking and handcuffs to even more extreme versions of leather play, people are loving the dominant/submissive role play!
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3. Mixing It up
Sometimes sexual fantasies can be something as simple as just mixing up your normal routine. When sex gets too predictable, it ceases to be exciting, so many women simply fantasise about having their sex life shaken up with new positions, new locations, even new partners.
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Trying something out of the ordinary doesn't necessarily require drastic changes—it can be as intimate as blindfolding or adding a sensual massage into foreplay. For others, the thrill lies in the novelty of getting frisky in a semi-public place or joining the mile high club. It's about breaking free from the bedroom routine and venturing into the uncharted territories of their erotic minds. Exploration with toys or different scenarios can also add that dash of unpredictability that reignites desire. This process of discovery is both tantalizing and liberating, as it opens doors to heightened pleasure and deeper connection.
4. Public
Getting down and dirty in public is a hugely popular fantasy. There is something about the risk and danger involved that really gets people turned on. I’m no psychologist, but I’ve got a feeling it stems back to teenage years and the thrill and fear of maybe getting caught in your bedroom by a parent!
5. Cheating
There’s the fantasy about having a consensual multi-partnered experience, and then there’s the fantasy about straight up cheating. The naughtiness, the risk, the web of sexy lies that is built by an affair ... this is something that gets a lot of people’s juices flowing!
6. Being Desired
Just the process of being desired and worshipped is something that is big on a lot of women’s fantasy lists. It almost nudges into a sort of dominant territory, where you have a partner who is so besotted and obsessed with you that they will pretty much do anything you ask!
7. Same Sex
Did you know that around 59% percent of straight women have fantasised about sleeping with another woman? Same-sex sex fantasies are extremely common, and they also happen to be a fantasy that lots of people actually choose to act upon. It’s 2018 after all, why not give it a try!?
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