4. Having Your Own Interests Makes You Interesting

It’s a good idea to have your own interests and hobbies.

This includes things that you enjoy with your friends.

Having your own thing going makes you interesting to the other person.

It’s good to have parts of your life that you don’t share with your boyfriend and he doesn’t share with you.

This keeps the mystery alive.

It Encourages You to Foster Your Own Friendships


@dominique so true! My boy and I kept having some nonsense issue after spending everyday together
@dominique mine too! My boy and I spend too much time together And everyday we've been having this nonsense issue
I get he needs his friends. But he's ended up lying about who he was with and what they were doing MULTIPLE times. So it's hard for me to allow him to do these things easily.
@Nancy you can always make new friends. This will for sure boost your confidence and make you so much more interesting thus strengthen your relationship :-)
Beryl Stokes
I sympathise with you ! So many of us did the same and realise too late what we unwittingly did. Why not down tools yourself at home when he goes off and get the kids to entertain themselves whilst you spoil yourself a while ? Answering Zanna by the way .
Hm. Well this is a tricky subject for me. Mostly because we have 4 kids, so for years he got to go mountain biking and snowboarding and camping and out for beers. I stayed with the kids who were my number one priority. Then also, nobody invited us out as a family because there were so many of us that it was like a home invasion. Over the years I lost my friends because I was tied to the house so much. Now I feel like I should have gotten a chance to go out too. I was so busy, I forgot about me!
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