No matter your age, there are emotions crushes put you through. Some make you feel like the luckiest girl on Earth, while others will give you a sinking feeling in your stomach. Whether you love finding new guys to fall for or hate being infatuated with someone you know will hurt you, there’s no question that there are emotions crushes put you through that will brighten and ruin your day. Don’t feel like you’re alone, because everyone goes through the same process.
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1. Giddiness
Giddiness is one of the best emotions crushes put you through. When he smiles at you, you melt. When his name pops up on your phone, you get butterflies that refuse to go away. He can make your day by doing something as simple as speaking to you. All you want is a bit of his attention, and you’re overjoyed when you receive it.
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Crushes can be a source of extraordinary emotions. When you feel a strong connection with someone, it can be hard to put into words. One of the feelings you may experience is giddiness. This is a feeling of excitement and joy that can come over you when you think of your crush or when you receive any kind of attention from them.
Giddiness can be a powerful emotion. It can make you feel like you’re on top of the world and that anything is possible. You may feel like you’re in a dream and that you can do anything. This feeling can be hard to shake and can last for days, weeks, or even longer.
Giddiness can also be a sign of infatuation. It can be a sign that you’re in the early stages of a relationship and that you’re starting to develop strong feelings for someone. It can also be a sign that you’re feeling a strong connection with someone and that you’re feeling a strong attraction.
2. Disappointment
In the same way that he can make your day, he can ruin it in an instant. When he doesn’t return your calls or plans fall through, it’s like the world is ending. You want to be in a relationship with him, so it’s disappointing to see him with another girl. You can’t let yourself get too upset over any guy. Don’t let him have so much control over you that your happiness depends on how he’s acting toward you.
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When you have a crush, it can be hard to control your emotions. You can feel a range of emotions from excitement and anticipation to disappointment and even anger. When you’re in the early stages of a crush, the excitement of the possibility of a relationship can be overwhelming. You may find yourself daydreaming about how it could be, and the anticipation of seeing them can be thrilling.
At the same time, the fear of rejection can be crippling. You may find yourself overanalyzing every interaction, trying to read between the lines to see if they’re interested in you. If they don’t return your calls or plans fall through, it can be devastating. Seeing them with another girl can be even worse.
It’s important to remember that your happiness shouldn’t depend on how someone else is acting towards you. It’s important to take care of yourself and find joy in other things, rather than relying on someone else to make you happy. If you can keep your emotions in check and focus on yourself, it can help you to keep things in perspective and avoid the disappointment.
3. Confidence
When he compliments you, it’s an instant confidence boost. What could be better than hearing a crush say how cute you look? When someone you admire compliments you, it’s one of the greatest feelings there is. Even if you don’t agree with his compliment, it’s great to hear. Impressing your crush will make you feel great about yourself.
4. Sorrow
It’s dangerous to be completely crazy over one person. When you see him kiss his girlfriend, you’re not going to be in the best mood. By liking someone, you’re giving them power over you. He can make you cry without meaning to do so. All it takes is one look at the wrong girl, and your heart is shattered.
5. Jealousy
Jealousy is one of the worst feelings to have and the most difficult to get rid of. Watching the guy you like flirt with someone else can be torturous. You have no right to be jealous, since he’s not yours, but that doesn’t ease the pain. It’s difficult to watch the boy you daydream about treat another girl like a princess. It’s something that everyone has to deal with, but that doesn’t make it any easier.
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6. Distraction
When you can’t get him off of your mind, you’re going to slack on your responsibilities. Instead of focusing on homework or housework, you’re busy thinking about him. Every time you try to get a task done, he pops back into your head. Crushes can cause distractions, even when they’re not within your sight. When they’re in the same room, the effects are that much worse.
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It's like a persistent buzz in the back of your mind that refuses to be silenced. Whether it's his smile, the sound of his voice, or just the way he looked at you - these thoughts hijack your concentration. And don't even get me started on social media stalking; it's a black hole for productivity. You promise yourself two minutes, and suddenly, it's two hours later. You're deep in the archives of his 2009 family vacation photos, and that spreadsheet you were working on? Totally forgotten. It’s a wonder how anyone gets anything done with love in the air.
7. Fulfillment
It’s always nice to get what you want. If you end up dating your crush, congrats! Kissing the boy you’ve liked for months is an amazing feeling. All of the emotions that he put you through are worth it when you get him in the end. Enjoy him!
Crushes can be enjoyable and miserable. Do you currently have a crush? Do you think he returns your feelings?
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Bisma: I've felt every single emotion in this article, it's crazy. But most of all, I've only felt sorrow because my crush moved states when he went to college and now he's in a committed relationship with a gorgeous girl who also happens to be a model. I mean, not only does looking at both of them tears my heart apart, but seeing how perfect she is lowers my self-esteem too. I keep telling myself that it's just a stupid crush and meaningless but then I remember that I've been crushing on him for almost four years! I don't know what to do with my life, hopefully someone better comes along and sweeps me off my feet. I hope I can get over him someday. 😫😭
Ellenie: I only recently started having a crush on my guy best friend. We've had a fe skypes and we snapchat almost everday. We always hangout together and we always make each other laugh. Recently we've been really really close but all of a sudden i see that he's caught up with like 3 girls and his mate one day and now im just trying to figure out what is happening. (He told me he didnt even like 2 of these girls) im so upset and i cant get over it at all :(
Daniela: My crush just got a gf yesturday and I'm so sad and depressed. Why can't i get over him ?
Daniella: I have a crush and I causing me not to sleep is that bad?
EvVie: A guy I had a crush on for 6 years got married last December. I was really hoping to be over him before his first year anniversary. I only have 2 months left.
Angeliccatfood: Omg this is so me right now, I feel so invisible, and paranoid especially when he\'s around all is friends, it sucks, I can\'t sleep at night, and yet I\'m too shy to do anything!
EvVie: The worst part is he used to tell me everything, even if he just liked a girl, then all the sudden he got married, and I never even knew he was dating anyone!
Folayan: I love him. all my friends say he likes me. he's held my hand and always hugs me and smiles at me. we're going to six flags on sunday. like a REAL DATE. OMG! any advice? should i tell him how i feel?
LittleMissUnknown: Write a comHaving a crush sucks! But at the same time it's amazing what they can put you through and how they make us feel (although it's not entirely their fault!) and it's even worse if they have no idea how we're completely crazy about them! The amount of time I was thinking or crying about my crush could have been equivalent of me studying or focusing on my studies first! :'( right now sometimes I feel kinda distracted by him or disappointed about myself, I mean geez it's just a crush, I really do need to calm myself down and seriously get over him, but it's gonna hard... :(ment ...
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