Back in the day, it was easy for a man to get away with cheating. Now, with all of the technology that we have, it's a whole lot harder. While you shouldn't invade your man's privacy on a hunch, there's nothing wrong with doing a little snooping if you expect him of cheating. Here are a few different ways that men have been caught in the past:
1. Checking His Email
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Most cheaters are smart enough to delete their risky text messages, and replace their lover's name with a fake name in their phones. However, plenty of men have been caught by their girlfriends snooping through their emails or Facebook messages. There's so many different ways to contact each other today that it's almost impossible for him to erase all evidence of being unfaithful.
2. Tracking the GPS on His Phone
You might not know it, but your iPhone actually has a GPS tracker on it. Plus, there are plenty of apps that women can download to keep tabs on their man's phone. Some women even go the extra mile and purchase a GPS tracker to stick to their man's car. That way, they're able to see if he's really still at work when he says he is.
3. Leaving the Baby Monitor out
Some women with babies will use their children to their advantage. When their man is on the phone, they'll keep the baby monitor near him. That way, she'll be able to hear everything from his end of the conversation. Then she can see if he's really talking to his friend from work, or if he's talking to the other woman that he's been seeing.
4. Counting the Miles on His Car
Women know how long it takes their man to drive from home to work. That's why they'll look at the mileage on his car. If it's too high or low, then it suggests that he wasn't actually going to work. He was going someplace else entirely.
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5. Checking the Phone Bill
If a woman shares a house and a phone bill with a man, she can use that bill to see if he's cheating. It'll say how many text messages he's been receiving a month, and if she doesn't know where those texts are coming from (because he's been erasing them), then it's pretty clear he has a secret.
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6. Checking His Garbage Can
This one sounds pretty gross, but some women will check their man's garbage for clues. If there are old condoms inside that she knows he didn't use with her, then it's clear he's been cheating. If there are old tampons in there that don't belong to her, she'll come to the same conclusion.
7. Coming over Unannounced
In the past, the most common way men were caught cheating was by having their girlfriends walk in unexpectedly. Well, unfortunately, that can still happen in this day and age. Some women will purposely go to their man's house unannounced to see if he's actually alone, or if he has some female company.
It hurts a whole lot more to be cheated on than to be broken up with. That's why men need to start leaving us when they're unhappy instead of stringing us along. It's not fair to either one of us. Have you ever been cheated on?
Comments
Kris: "If you EXPECT him of cheating? Are you serious? If you EXPECT him to cheat, you're an idiot for staying with him!
Robin: All I had to do was check his American Express bill and other bills and saw flowers he sent to her
ludeah: When you go searching, you will find what your looking for. Just way it out.
Cupcake10: Mine doesn't have the gots to cheat on me
Olivia: That's exactly what I was thinking @AndySachs. What if a man did this to his girlfriend? Most people would say it was abusive.
Cupcake10: I meant guts not gots
ludeah: I honestly believe by doing all of this will only hurt yourself. If he is cheating it will eventually come to light. It won't stay hidden in the dark forever. Plus, how does that make you look snooping, I have done all these things in my past relationships and it got me no where it heart broken. If he is cheating trust hot
ludeah: It's going to come out
Bayside: There's quite a few articles and studies that state how infidelity is a form of emotional abuse. If you look at how it attracts the partners self esteem, the lies and other factors involved. I can understand how this is the case in certain cases. Emotional cheating is also cheating. You are still taking yourself away from your relationship and giving parts of yourself to another.
Irina: All "methods" are a little crazy, men could use same ways to check if the girlfriend or wife is cheating and I definetely wouldn't like anyone to check on me like this, I mean, installing some apps on my phone etc., I would leave him just for this reason
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