If you want to kiss your crush, you need to make the right moves. The next time you're alone with him, there are a few things you can try. Here are a few subtle ways to initiate a kiss with your crush:
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1. Look into His Eyes
Your eyes can tell him everything that your mouth is afraid to say. All you have to do is look him in the eyes, then look down at his lips, and then look up and into his eyes again.
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This simple yet powerful gesture is often referred to as the "triangular gazing technique," and it can create an intense connection without saying a word. As you execute this smooth glance transition, allow a soft smile to grace your lips, enhancing the moment with a hint of vulnerability and invitation. The prolonged eye contact paired with a coy look to his mouth signals a clear interest, setting the stage for that much-anticipated kiss. Just remember to keep your gaze steady and inviting, letting your eyes mirror the warmth and affection you feel.
2. Lick Your Lips
Drawing attention to your lips is your best bet when you want him to kiss you. That's why you can do something as subtle as licking your lips in order to get his attention.
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When your lips are subtly glossed with the sheen of your tongue, it can be just the trigger to make your crush think about wanting to kiss you. Think of it as a silent hint, beckoning him to make his move. Tenderly tracing your lips with the tip of your tongue, especially when you're holding an engaging eye contact, enhances the effect. Don't overdo it, though; a gentle, fleeting motion is more enticing than anything too deliberate. The idea is to stoke curiosity and desire, not to seem overly eager.
Frequently asked questions
Well, it's all about reading the room. Look for signs they might want to kiss too, like lingering eye contact or moving closer. You could initiate a playful touch or gently compliment them to set the mood.
Totally normal to feel jittery! Just take a deep breath and remember that they're probably a bit nervous too. Start slow and let things happen naturally. You'll know when the moment is right!
Create a sweet moment by choosing a cozy or romantic setting. Share a funny or cute story to lighten the mood, and just be yourself. A meaningful, gentle kiss can often feel very special.
Communication is key! If you're not certain, you could ask them if they want to kiss you. It might feel awkward at first, but it shows you're considerate of their feelings, which can be really endearing.
Absolutely! You could playfully suggest a kiss after a shared joke, or casually mention how nice they look and let your gaze linger on their lips. Subtle hints like this can be quite charming.
3. Tell Him You Want to Kiss
There's nothing wrong with being blunt. He'll like your confidence. Plus, if you just tell him you want a kiss, you won't have to wonder if he's confused about how you feel.
4. Caress His Face
You don't have to be the one to go in for the kiss. Instead, you can cup his face in your hand. He should get the hint.
5. Lean in
You can't kiss him from far away. That's why you should lean in, as close as you can, to let him know what's on your mind.
6. Touch His Thighs
You don't have to grope him. Just let your fingers rest on his thighs. It should make him think inappropriate thoughts.
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This sort of gentle contact is one of the smoothest signals you can send. Casually placing your hand near his knee, especially while sharing a laugh or a moment of connection, can be very intimate. It’s a place few people touch casually, so it’s almost like sharing a little secret between the two of you. It's both bold and discreet, setting the pulse racing a bit faster, and can easily lead to those moments where eyes lock and the rest of the world seems to fall away.
7. Touch His Lips with Your Fingertips
This can be awkward, which is why you have to wait until the moment is right. But if the move is pulled off properly, you'll create an intimate moment between the two of you.
8. Apply Chapstick or Lipstick
This is another way to draw attention to your lips. If he sees you
touching them, then he'll wonder what it would be like to touch them himself.
9. Compliment Him
Some boys are clueless. In order to let him know how you feel, you might have to give him a compliment about how sexy he is to make it clear that you're attracted to him.
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Compliments can do wonders to boost his confidence and pave the way for that much-awaited kiss. If you're specific about what you adore in him—be it his smile, the way he laughs, or his impeccable style—not only does it show your genuine interest, but it could also bring you closer. Don't overdo it though; just enough flattery to make his heart skip a beat. The right blend of admiration can hint that you're ready to take things to a more romantic level.
10. Make a Dirty Joke
If you joke about sex, then he'll think about sex. That could lead to a kiss!
11. Have Open Body Language
You don't want to keep your arms crossed and your eyes on the ground. If you do, then he'll assume you don't want to be bothered and won't even try to touch you.
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Instead, aim to express warmth and invitation with your posture. Lean slightly towards him when he speaks, and let your feet point in his direction—it subconsciously signals interest. Your hands can be lightly placed in your lap or animated when you talk, which sends the message that you're engaged in the conversation. A casual touch on the arm or a coy smile can further hint that you're open to more intimacy. Remember, the language of the body is incredibly powerful, and it speaks volumes before a single word is exchanged.
12. Bite Your Lip
Instead of touching your lips or applying lipstick, you can bite down on your lip. It can be a sign of sexual frustration, so he should know exactly what's on your mind.
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Biting your lip is a great way to initiate a kiss with your crush without being too obvious. It can be a subtle way to show your interest and let your crush know that you're interested in them. Biting your lip is a sign of sexual frustration, so your crush will be able to pick up on that. It's a great way to get your crush to make the first move and start the kiss.
You can also use biting your lip to show your crush that you're flirting with them. When you bite your lip, it can make your crush think about kissing you, so it's a great way to get them to make the move. It's also a great way to show your crush that you're feeling a little bit naughty and that you're interested in them.
When you bite your lip, make sure that you don't bite too hard. You want to make sure that you don't hurt your crush and that the gesture is subtle and sexy. Also, make sure that you don't bite your lip for too long, as it can become uncomfortable for your crush.
13. Linger after a Hug
If you're lucky enough to hug him, don't pull away completely once you're finished. Keep your face close to his so he knows what to do.
14. Make Flirty Comments
Flirting will encourage him to kiss you. So be as playful as humanly possible!
15. Sit Shoulder to Shoulder
If you two are watching Netflix together, make sure you sit side-by-side on the couch. The closer you are, the easier it'll be to initiate a kiss.
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One of the most romantic ways to initiate a kiss with your crush is to sit shoulder to shoulder. This is a great way to show your affection and create an intimate atmosphere. Sitting side-by-side on the couch while watching Netflix is an ideal way to make sure you’re close enough to initiate a kiss.
When you’re sitting shoulder to shoulder, you can easily reach out and touch the other person’s hand or arm. This is a subtle way to show your interest and will help to create a romantic atmosphere. You can also lean in closer and whisper something in their ear. This will show your interest and can help to set the mood for a kiss.
You can also use body language to show your interest. Making eye contact, smiling, and laughing are all ways to communicate your feelings without saying anything. If your crush responds in kind, it’s a good sign that they’re interested in you.
16. Smile
When the conversation dies down and you're looking him in the eyes, make sure to smile at him. It'll let him know that you're happy to be with him.
17. Do It Yourself
If you wait for him to make a move, you could be waiting forever. If nothing else works, then you can just lean right in and kiss him yourself!
Now you'll be able to hint at what's been on your mind! What other tips do you have for initiating a kiss?
Comments
Colleen: Oh. My.
cutietbh: Cutee
Janessa: Another way is while you two are making eye contact, gently pull on his shirt & run your fingers through his hair gently & he should get the memo that you want a kiss. Guys love that because it initiates a passionate kiss!(:
peony: I thought the idea of a crush was that he would be that guy who you dream off but never have get him...
BrittanyBAKER: These are great. I'm going to use them with my hubby later lol.
Bunny: I am a very spontaneous person✴ to me things like these happen naturally !
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