You shouldn't wait around for your crush to gain the courage to ask you out. You're a strong, capable woman. Instead of hoping he'll make the first move, you should do it yourself! Here are a few flirty lines you can use to get the job done:
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1. Either I Had a Dream You Asked Me out or I Can Predict the Future
This is a smooth way to figure out how he feels about you. It's also a great way to make him laugh.
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Claiming you've foreseen the future or had a dream is an intriguing way to gauge his interest. You can playfully hint at destiny without putting too much on the line. Emphasize the humorous aspect, which will not only put him at ease but also open the door for him to step up if he's indeed interested in asking you out. If he laughs it off, you've saved face with your wit, but if he probes further, it might just be the sign you're looking for that he wants to turn that dream into reality.
2. Want to Come over and Put on a Movie That We Won’t Actually Watch?
This will let him know that you'd rather make-out with him than have a friendly chat.
Frequently asked questions
No worries, a cute approach can work wonders! Something like, 'I've been thinking, and I’d love it if we could get to know each other better over dinner sometime.' It comes off as genuine and sweet.
Oh, there are so many good ones! If you want to keep it simple and sweet, try something like, 'I'm really enjoying our chats, how about we turn this into a date?' It shows interest but isn't too over the top.
You want to keep it light and fun! Try something like, 'Hey, I’ve got a fun idea! How about we grab coffee this weekend?' It sounds casual and inviting.
Absolutely! If you feel a strong connection, why not? You could say, 'We've been spending so much wonderful time together, do you think we could make it official?' It’s straightforward but still endearing.
Sure thing! Humor is a great way to break the ice. You could say, 'Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again? Just kidding, but how about a date?' It’s cheeky and fun!
3. A Wild [YOUR NAME] Appears. [YOUR NAME] Uses Ask out
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If you know that he's a fan of Pokemon, you should use this approach.
4. Any Chance You Want to Transition from My Boy Friend to My Boyfriend?
Of course, this will only work if you two are already buds.
5. I’m Free This Weekend in Case You Wanted to Ask Me out
This way, he'll technically be the one asking you out, even though you're doing all of the work.
6. Sooo Are You Going to Make the First Move or Should I?
The next time the sexual tension becomes unbearable, break out this line.
7. I’m Going to the Movies This Weekend. Would Be More Fun if You Came with Me
You're not actually asking a question here, so even if he doesn't want to go with you, you're not actually being turned down.
8. So I Hear We're Both Single. We Should Change That
This is a bold statement, so make sure you say it confidently.
9. If I Asked You out, Would You Say Yes?
This is a cute way to ask him out without actually asking him out.
10. What Time Are You Picking Me up on Friday?
This doesn't even give him a chance to turn you down.
11. How Much Longer do I Have to Wait for You to Realize We’d Be Perfect Together?
Make sure you say this playfully, because you don't want him to think you want to get super serious right away.
12. We Should Go out Sometime. Together. on a Date
If you think he'll appreciate your adorable awkwardness, ask him out like this.
13. On a Scale of 1 to America, How Free Are You Tonight?
This is a cute way to see if he's available, especially if he's interested in history or politics.
14. Unless You’re Going to Ask Me out, Stop Being so Cute
The next time he does something adorable, use this line.
15. Guess Where We’re Going This Weekend?
If you're confident he'll say yes, make plans without asking for his approval first.
16. Do You Want to Go on a Date or Should I Keep Silently Pining over You?
This will make it clear that you've had feelings for him for a while.
17. My Dog Wants to Meet You
This is the perfect excuse to ask him over to your house. After all, no one will turn down the opportunity to meet a puppy!
There's no sense in waiting for your crush to ask you out when you can just ask him out! Have you ever made the first move before?
Comments
Emma: Some of them are just weird and some are ok
Crystal: All of these could badly backfire especially no. 1
Sil: OMG all of these are so funny and cute, you definitely have to be the out-there kind of person to ask these ! I definitely would 😜
Rich: I just enjoyed every woman winking at me...until it wasn’t me at all:)
Katie: Some of these are cute. Some are creepy. Good rule of thumb: ask yourself how you'd feel if someone said it to you. :)
Splashhhh: No.17 is kinda rude i think
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