So, let's say you slept with someone you're really into, someone you'd love to hang out with, hook up with, and maybe even get serious with. Whatever the case, you want to keep him (or her!) interested, too, which means doing everything possible to get him to chase after you. Now, obviously, the best thing to do is to just be honest and say what you want, straight out. If he's into it, awesome. If he's not, no problem. Sometimes a subtle approach is better, though, not to mention more comfortable, so here are a few foolproof techniques to make him chase you after you hook up!
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1. Bask in the Afterglow as Much as Possible
The afterglow is amazing – as long as you're spending it with someone you really want to be with, that is! It's so great to experience it with someone you've got great chemistry with, someone who makes you feel comfortable, and someone you can actually be intimate with. Spend it talking, cuddling, dozing – or a bit of each!
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When it comes to making a man chase you after you’ve slept with him, basking in the afterglow is essential. This is the time when you can connect on an emotional level and build a strong bond. It’s important to spend quality time together, talking, cuddling, and dozing off. Doing this can help you both feel comfortable and intimate with one another, allowing you to get to know each other on a deeper level.
It’s also important to remember that the afterglow isn’t just about physical intimacy. It’s a time to appreciate each other and to create a stronger connection. While physical intimacy can be great, it’s important to also take advantage of the time to connect emotionally. Talk about your shared interests, your dreams, and your hopes for the future. This can help you both to feel closer and more connected.
In addition, it’s important to remember that the afterglow is a time to enjoy each other’s company. Don’t be afraid to laugh and have fun. Enjoying each other’s company can help to build a strong bond and make him want to chase you even more.
So, you've already slept with him and now you want to keep him interested? The trick is to avoid being too available. Don't always be the first to text or call. Give him a reason to miss you!
One way is by being confident and maintaining your own life. Show him that you have hobbies, friends, and interests. Men often find independence very attractive.
Sometimes guys can feel they've 'won' and lose interest after intimacy. It's important to pace the relationship and not rush into things. Give him a chance to prove he's worth your time.
Building a connection beyond physical intimacy is key. Spend quality time together, share experiences, and communicate openly. This helps form a deeper bond.
Absolutely! If you both had a good time and there's chemistry, don't be afraid to show interest. Just remember not to seem desperate. A little mystery can go a long way!
2. Don't Make Demands on Him, Especially if It is More of a One-night-stand
If one or both of you made it clear from the start that this is all kind of casual, don't push for more. Something can grow, you never know, but if you go in knowing that you're just hanging out, you can't start expecting more. Have a conversation about it so you'll be clear. Then you won't have to make assumptions or demands.
So, you've already slept with him and now you want to keep him interested? The trick is to avoid being too available. Don't always be the first to text or call. Give him a reason to miss you!
One way is by being confident and maintaining your own life. Show him that you have hobbies, friends, and interests. Men often find independence very attractive.
Sometimes guys can feel they've 'won' and lose interest after intimacy. It's important to pace the relationship and not rush into things. Give him a chance to prove he's worth your time.
Building a connection beyond physical intimacy is key. Spend quality time together, share experiences, and communicate openly. This helps form a deeper bond.
Absolutely! If you both had a good time and there's chemistry, don't be afraid to show interest. Just remember not to seem desperate. A little mystery can go a long way!
3. No Pressure
Some guys really don't like pressure, and they sometimes see it where it doesn't actually exist. Do not apply pressure to the affected area – best motto to follow if you want a guy to pursue you after you sleep together. Act a little indifferent and like you're not at all bothered. He'll come runnin' – and if he doesn't, if he's not into it, that's cool, too, 'cause you're NOT bothered, right?
So, you've already slept with him and now you want to keep him interested? The trick is to avoid being too available. Don't always be the first to text or call. Give him a reason to miss you!
One way is by being confident and maintaining your own life. Show him that you have hobbies, friends, and interests. Men often find independence very attractive.
Sometimes guys can feel they've 'won' and lose interest after intimacy. It's important to pace the relationship and not rush into things. Give him a chance to prove he's worth your time.
Building a connection beyond physical intimacy is key. Spend quality time together, share experiences, and communicate openly. This helps form a deeper bond.
Absolutely! If you both had a good time and there's chemistry, don't be afraid to show interest. Just remember not to seem desperate. A little mystery can go a long way!
4. Respect Him and He Will Respect You
Mutual respect is a must no matter what. You have to respect each other. You know that tired old trope of the girl who's supposed to feel guilty or ashamed of casual sex? Yeah, forget that. Women have sexual desires and appetites, too. They run the gamut and each choice is perfectly fine. You should never have to worry about being disrespected by a partner because you had sex with him. If he respects you, then you will respect him. If you respect him, then he will respect you.
So, you've already slept with him and now you want to keep him interested? The trick is to avoid being too available. Don't always be the first to text or call. Give him a reason to miss you!
One way is by being confident and maintaining your own life. Show him that you have hobbies, friends, and interests. Men often find independence very attractive.
Sometimes guys can feel they've 'won' and lose interest after intimacy. It's important to pace the relationship and not rush into things. Give him a chance to prove he's worth your time.
Building a connection beyond physical intimacy is key. Spend quality time together, share experiences, and communicate openly. This helps form a deeper bond.
Absolutely! If you both had a good time and there's chemistry, don't be afraid to show interest. Just remember not to seem desperate. A little mystery can go a long way!
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. No Texts or Calls, Make Him do It
It's the weirdest thing. Make yourself unavailable, stop reaching out, and bam, suddenly he's reaching out to you! Match him text for text – don't send one unless your partner sends one and don't volunteer more information than he asks. You don't have to be cold or distant, exactly, just don't go out of your way to get in contact first.
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If he senses you're eagerly waiting for his text or call, he might take your interest for granted. Play it cool and maintain your own busy life. It's about creating a bit of mystery around you, which can stoke his curiosity. Let him wonder what you're up to. When he finally does reach out, be pleasant but succinct. Give him the space to miss you and he'll likely make more effort to pursue your attention. Remember, it's about balance; stay engaged but let him initiate the chase!
So, you've already slept with him and now you want to keep him interested? The trick is to avoid being too available. Don't always be the first to text or call. Give him a reason to miss you!
One way is by being confident and maintaining your own life. Show him that you have hobbies, friends, and interests. Men often find independence very attractive.
Sometimes guys can feel they've 'won' and lose interest after intimacy. It's important to pace the relationship and not rush into things. Give him a chance to prove he's worth your time.
Building a connection beyond physical intimacy is key. Spend quality time together, share experiences, and communicate openly. This helps form a deeper bond.
Absolutely! If you both had a good time and there's chemistry, don't be afraid to show interest. Just remember not to seem desperate. A little mystery can go a long way!
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6. Try Not to Get Emotionally Involved Unless He Does
This is why it's so important to be honest about what you want. If you know that you want something casual and relaxed, perfect! It's likewise awesome if you're looking for something a little more serious, but you can't just assume your partner knows that. Of course, even if you're just hanging out a lot or if you're friends with benefits, sometimes you catch feelings. Try not to or, if you can't help it, either say something, end it, or keep them in perspective.
So, you've already slept with him and now you want to keep him interested? The trick is to avoid being too available. Don't always be the first to text or call. Give him a reason to miss you!
One way is by being confident and maintaining your own life. Show him that you have hobbies, friends, and interests. Men often find independence very attractive.
Sometimes guys can feel they've 'won' and lose interest after intimacy. It's important to pace the relationship and not rush into things. Give him a chance to prove he's worth your time.
Building a connection beyond physical intimacy is key. Spend quality time together, share experiences, and communicate openly. This helps form a deeper bond.
Absolutely! If you both had a good time and there's chemistry, don't be afraid to show interest. Just remember not to seem desperate. A little mystery can go a long way!
7. Be Yourself, He'll Definitely Want You
There's nothing sexier than a girl who's confident in who she is. Acting like someone else always backfires and it's totally unnecessary. The person you are? She's amazing, astounding, and altogether awesome. She doesn't need to be anyone other than herself!
How do you navigate these sometimes muddy waters, ladies? Give up your tips in the comments!
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Bharti: Never seem clingy or needy. Keep your self super busy.
peony: Or he goes out with i but just remember either come easy goes!
Sapna: If it has to be more than casual fling it has to mutually said by both
Mike: AWESOME effort here, “Super~Heather”!!~ Also a RELEVANT, perceptive, succinct, wise & perceptive message for guys, as well! Thanks :)
Emmarachelmay: None of this matters. If he wants it to continue then it will
peony: It could ho either way he either dumps u
Mel: Question.. casual fling.. but feel as though you were disrespected by this person and you call them on it.. but they see it as you are playing games.. Confused on this.. you call them on something that was observed they did with another woman. Help
Adam: Song good
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