Turn-ons for girls can be anything from a simple touch all the way to a run of a hand through our hair. Guys, if you are looking for a way to turn us on, don't worry! I've got the top turn-ons for girls that will help you figure out what your girl wants! Remember, a turn-on isn't hard to figure out, especially if you know what your girlfriend really likes!
1 Playing with Her Hair 👩
I love when my Better Half plays with my hair. It's absolutely one of the biggest turn-ons for me and I know that I'm not the only girl like that! If you're looking to turn your girlfriend on, run your fingers through her hair and see how she responds!
2 Light Touches 👫
Light, soft, subtle little touches along her arm, her stomach, her legs – all of these are huge turn-ons for a girl! Not only do they arouse a girl, but when they are returned? I promise that you'll love 'em. So touch her a little more and see where it gets you!
Frequently asked questions
Kindness is a huge turn-on because it shows that a person is caring and considerate towards others, which is a desirable trait in a partner.
Having common interests can definitely be a turn-on as it allows for shared experiences and deeper connections.
Yes, genuine compliments can make a girl feel appreciated and attractive, which can be a big turn-on.
Paying attention to a girl's needs and desires shows that you care and are invested in her happiness, which can be very appealing.
Girls can be turned on by a variety of things like confidence, a good sense of humor, intelligence, compassion, and being listened to.
Definitely, lots of girls find a guy with a good sense of humor very attractive and engaging.
While physical attraction can be a factor, it's often a combination of personality traits, actions, and emotional connection that are more significant.
Many girls are attracted to someone who is adventurous and spontaneous because it can make the relationship more exciting.
Confidence can be very attractive, as it suggests that the person is secure in themselves and their abilities.
Yes, intelligence is often a big turn-on because it shows that someone is curious and knowledgeable, which can be very appealing.
3 Good Kissing 💏
Finally, guys you gotta be a good kisser! A girl likes to make out and typically if you are getting down to business, it is because of making out. So keep your breath fresh and your lips kissable and I promise that you'll be fine!
Good kissing is an important part of any romantic relationship. It's a way to show your partner that you care and that you're interested in them. Kissing can be a way to show your affection, express your feelings, and even deepen your connection.
Kissing is a skill, and like any skill, it takes practice to get it right. It's important to be gentle, but passionate. Start off with gentle, closed-mouth kisses, and then move on to more passionate, open-mouth kisses. Pay attention to your partner's cues, and be sure to take it slow.
When it comes to making out, it's important to keep your breath fresh and your lips kissable. Try to avoid any foods that might leave a bad taste in your mouth, and brush your teeth before you start kissing. Make sure to use a lip balm or chapstick to keep your lips soft and smooth.
Finally, it's important to be aware of your partner's body language. Pay attention to their signals and take cues from them. If they seem to be enjoying it, then keep going. If they seem uncomfortable or uninterested, then it's best to stop and move on to something else.
4 Kissing on the Body 👄
Neck, earlobe, behind the ear, back of the neck, these are huge turn-ons for us! We like when men take charge and really feel our skin beneath their lips.
Kissing on the body is a huge turn-on for many women. After all, who doesn't like to be showered with affection? Taking the time to kiss a woman's neck, earlobes, and behind her ear can be incredibly romantic and intimate. Not only does it feel good physically, but it can also be a great way to show your love and appreciation for your partner.
Kissing on the body is not only a great way to show physical affection, but it can also be a great way to show emotional connection. It can be a way to express love and appreciation for your partner, and it can also be a way to build intimacy and trust.
Kissing on the body can be a great way to set the mood for a romantic evening. It can help build anticipation and excitement, and it can be a great way to show your partner how much you care.
Kissing on the body can also be a great way to show your partner that you are in the moment and that you are paying attention to them. Taking the time to show your partner that you are focused on them and that you are interested in their body can be incredibly special and meaningful.
5 A Refreshing Makeout Session 💋
So, not only are light kisses something that a girl craves, but she also wants a makeout session, a little grinding, some tongue and some suckles on her lips. The deeper the kiss, the better!
6 PDA 💑
Don't be scared to show your woman that she is yours in public. I'm not saying that you need to grab her butt or swing her around but kissing, light touches, holding her hand, these are all things that you'll want to do in public with her.
Public displays of affection (PDA) can be a great way to show your significant other that you care about them and that you’re proud to be in a relationship with them. It doesn’t have to be overly dramatic or inappropriate; even a simple kiss or holding hands can be enough to show your love.
Public displays of affection can be a great way to keep the spark alive in your relationship. It can also be a great way to show others that you’re in a committed relationship. This can be especially important for women who often feel like their relationships are not taken seriously.
It’s important to remember that public displays of affection should be kept within reasonable boundaries. You don’t want to make the other person feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. It’s also important to remember that not everyone is comfortable with PDA, so it’s important to respect their wishes.
7 Take a Shower Together 🛀🏼
This is actually a fantasy for some girls and it is a surefire way to turn her on. Touch her when she is slippery and wet or if you aren't into showers, take a bath together. Soap her up and shampoo her hair!
8 Massage Her a Bit ✋🏼
Yes, I mentioned that touching her was a good start, however, a massage will get her in the mood. Start with her shoulders, then down her back and then move down her thighs.
9 Affection 💑
You don't have to kiss her every five minutes, but you should show some sort of affection when you're with her. Hold her hand while you're sitting on the couch. Give her a peck when she walks past you. Do whatever you can to show her how much you care.
10 Open the Door for Her 👑
Girls like to feel like they are the most important woman in the world. This means that if you are attentive to us, we'll be putty in your hands! We appreciate the little things like opening the door for us, both when going into places and also when we are heading into the car.
11 Talking 💏
This does not consist of 'how is the weather' or 'how was your day', really talk to us! We like to know what you're thinking about, what's on your mind and also what makes you tick. Talking about any and everything really is a huge turn on for us girls, I promise!
12 Active Listening 👂
Remember up there when I said that listening was one of the hugest turn-ons for a girl? Well, it's true! Really pay attention to your girlfriend guys! Repeat back what she says! Remember that necklace that she said she wanted two weeks ago. Trust me, she'll be impressed with how awesome your listening skills are!
13 Deep Connection 👫
By far, one of the biggest turn-ons for girls comes from the connection. A girl likes to know the guy that she is with inside and out. She likes to know his thoughts, feelings and where the relationship is going. To be honest, if you really want to turn a girl on, connect with her!
14 Adventurous Guy 🏄🏼
Just because you've got a girlfriend, doesn't mean you can stop being adventurous! A girl likes to know that the guy she is with is not boring, in fact, a guy on the dangerous side is always a huge turn on! Whether you are driving a really fast car or you are just a daring kinda guy, your girlfriend will be turned on if you're a little adventurous!
15 Delicious Scent 👃🏼
When guys try to attract a girl, they don't usually think about her nose, which is a huge mistake. While we want men to look good and feel good, we also want them to smell good. The right scent can make us come closer and hope for a kiss.
16 Sense of Humor 😂
Women can't get enough of funny men. Of course, making us laugh isn't the only important thing that you need to do. We also want you to be able to laugh at yourselves and take a joke without getting angry. You need to be ready to laugh, and not ready to yell.
17 Chivalry 👌
Opening up doors for us and pulling out our chairs are swoon worthy. It's not something that we see every single day, even though we should. So if you treat a woman with respect and do a few little things for her, she'll think you're the sweetest thing she's ever seen.
18 Strength 👊 💪
We like muscles, but strength is about more than the size of your arms. Women want a man who can protect her if she was ever placed in danger. We want someone who will know how to handle an emergency situation and will keep us calm if we start to freak out.
19 Patience 🙏
We want a man who won't complain if we want to wait to get physical. We want a man who won't groan if we take too long applying make-up in the bathroom. The more patience you have, the happier we'll be with you. You don't have to let us get away with murder--just give us the time we need.
20 Playfulness 💆
If you're serious all the time, no woman will want to spend her days with you. We need some fun and excitement every once in a while, so if you won't joke around or watch sitcoms with her, she'll find someone who will.
21 Being Well Dressed 👦
The way that you dress is a huge factor in whether or not a woman will want to be with you. If you have poor hygiene and are wearing stained clothes, you won't appear attractive. You don't need to wear a suit and tie, but you need to look clean and presentable.
22 Intelligence 👀
Hearing a man discuss his favorite works of literature is always fascinating. It's nice to know that he has a brain of his own that isn't flooded with random facts about sports and TV shows. We want someone who will have an enlightening conversation with us.
23 Surprising Her 👫
You don't have to surprise her every single day, but it's a turn-on when a man does something that we would never have predicted. If you never clean, try washing the dishes and doing the laundry. If you never try anything new, take her to a fancy restaurant you've never been to.
24 Looks 👕 👖 👔
Everyone has a different opinion about who's considered attractive, but looking good is certainly a turn-on. Some women like tattoos, some women like beards, and some women like muscles. If you have what she likes, then she's probably already turned on.
25 Confidence 💃
Confidence is the most important thing for a man to have. If he's walking tall and acting like he's the most important person in the room, we're going to take notice of him. It's impossible not to.
26 Sharing a Deep Common Ground 💏
Not only do you want to understand her inside and out, but you also want to to have hobbies together. A girl loves, loves when a guy wants to do the things that she does. Does she love camping? You camp with her!
27 Understanding Her Personal Needs 👸
Sometimes, girls need space and sometimes they are clingy; a girl loves when a guy gets this. It's also a huge turn-on if he is willing to let her pull away, to give her, her space and yet still be there.
28 Knowing when She is in a Bad Mood 👌
Yes, you should know her inside and out, but a bad mood? That's different, if you can tell when your girl is in a bad mood, she'll absolutely love you and be so turned on when her mood flips around.
29 Cute Text Messages to Brighten Her Day 📱
When she is having a bad day, the last thing that she wants to do is explain why. If she makes it clear that she is in a bad mood, why not shoot her a cute little text?
30 Seduce Her with Food 🍝
Girls love food and if you're looking for a surefire way to turn her on, cook her dinner or order her favorite takeout meal. She'll love it!
So ladies, did I miss any turn-ons for girls? Guys, do you now know what turns your girl on? Remember, it's all about the connection. The deeper the connection, the more of a turn-on for a girl it is!
This article was written in collaboration with editor Heather Robinson.
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