1. Start Safe

By starting safe, I mean just go about your business in the normal, traditional way of oral sex. It’s good to create an easy and comfortable environment for him so that he can relax in to the experience, so before you go ahead and start trying something a little more out of the box, just get the ball rolling with some old-fashioned tongue caressing and light sucking to let him know he’s in for a good time.

2. Pay Attention

It’s important to pay attention to his responses and not just carry on as if you were some kind of automated machine. Listen out for the things that make him react the most, adjust your tempo and rhythm according to his breathing; basically just constantly be alert for little reactions that he will give off that will be able to tell what he likes and what he doesn’t like. The more successfully you can read his body language, the better the blow job is going to be!

3. One at a Time

Once you are in a zone with your safe start techniques, only try to introduce one new technique at a time, because overstimulation might feel good at the moment but once it’s over, he’s going to wish things hadn’t escalated so quickly! Make a decision about what you’re going to add to the mix and commit to just doing that one thing really well until his body language gives you the next instruction!

The key is finding out what he loves most and giving it to him.