I'm really hurt right now. There is this guy who I really really like and he likes me back. We text often but never like other people who like each other do. We hardly ever have a real conversation anymore. He's going to a different school next year and we have been in the same school since kindergarten. I love him a lot. For years he has been an awesome guy friend and now we are something a little more but it doesn't seem like he cares anymore. He compliments me and says the cutest things like when I ask him what's up he says talking to a beautiful girl. But that's only in text. No talk. Ever. Zip. I make a little conversation face to face but he never says much back. And nowadays if I text him, (we both have iPhones so I can see when he reads them) he sees them but he doesn't reply. It's happened multiple times. Am I taking it too much to heart? Or could he just be playing with it? It hurts me. Cuz I think I'm putting way more into this relationship, or whatever it is, then he is. When we first started talking after he said he liked me and I liked him, I felt as if he liked me way more than I did and it made me feel bad. But having it this way makes it feel so much worse.

Im meeting a guy after school that i met at a volleyball tournament a few weeks ago. He is coming to my school for a basketball game and were gonna talk. He asked me out but im really scared to talk to him. What do I say to make him want me ansd hug me?

I need advice! Okay so iv been dating this guy off and on since 3rd grade..yes i know very young! (Were in high school now) but every time we get together its always fantastic until all of the sudden he cheats or does something to hurt me and we brake up. Then 2 months later he wants me again. Recently, he told me he was so stupid to ever hurt me or let me go and that he made a lot of mistakes and all he wants was me so we dated for a week before his best friend told me he was talking to another girl..i was crushed!! And when he found out i knew he called me and poured his heart out and cried (he is a manly man so it was a surprise) and now he is telling me he loves me so much and hes gonna go everything in his power to get me back and that he wants to marry me someday etc...and i still love him but idk if i can trust him..what do i do?!

Ok.... I need major help. I try so hard to make this one guy like me and he says that he hates me with his guts. But, I don't really think he meant it. I mean when he said that, he was like smiling and he was like... I don't know. I don't think that he was telling me the truth. He sits in front of me but in the other row and he is always like kicking me playfully and putting his foot on my desk and always trying to get my attention I think. I mean I think it's flirting... My friend said that he told her that he didn't like me at all and he thought I was annoying, but if he thought that, he wouldn't be talking with me in class. Besides, my friend who said that she had a crush on him too. Please help me!!!!!!!!! I want to know your guys' advice or Heather.

Hey Rachel Hatcher, by reading your comment I got the impression that maybe your really taking this to heart. You both are young explore go out and enjoy what life gives you. I know because I went through that I know how it feels give it some time go out join classes after school hang out with other friends and you'll possibly meet new friends also! Good luck and hopefully I have helped you at least a bit so you won't be down!