I hate stereotypes and one of the stereotypes I often come across is the one referring to the fact that men can’t express their feelings and that most of the time, they’re emotionally numb; that’s just not true and I will prove it in this little article by showing you a few quite surprising ways your man shows his love for you. I know that sometimes it can be hard for a man to confess the feelings he has for you because he fears that they’re not mutual, so that’s why, most of the time, they prefer to just shut up and find other creative ways to show their love for you. So, here are 9 subtle ways your man shows his love for you:
1. He Gives You His Time
In my opinion, one of the most subtle ways your man shows his love for you is the fact that he gives you his time, and trust me, this is really a big deal. You know a man loves you when you notice that he spends more time with you than with anyone else, like his family, colleagues or even than with his closest friends. This means that he’s really into you and that he really likes to spend every waking moment in your company. So, be happy that he’s choosing you over everything or everybody else!
2. His Eyes Will Tell You Everything
If you want to know his true feelings for you, just pay attention to his beautiful eyes, ‘cause they are the ones that will tell you everything about his intentions. You’ll know he’s madly in love if he can’t take his eyes off you or if you often meet his eyes and he just starts smiling, apparently without a serious reason. Just pay attention to the little things and you’ll have your answer.
3. He Opens up
Among the other subtle ways a man shows his love for you is the fact that once he gets to know you better and once he realizes that he’s fallen for you, he will open himself up and he will be more affectionate with you. He will love to share his deepest thoughts, feelings and experiences with the woman he loves because he wants you to get to know him better and to understand his actions. You could say that this is one of the ways he tells you how special you really are and how much you mean to him.
4. He Makes Compromises
If you’ve had your first fight or disagreement and he’s still there and tries to solve everything or at least to understand why were you so mad at him or what he did wrong, it’s a clear sign he considers you to be very special. It's also a sign that he’s willing to do everything possible to get over your little argument and see you happy and smiling again.
5. He Will Help You with Your Chores
One of the most surprising of the ways men show their love is the fact that they’re willing sometimes to do anything in order to make you happy, even to do different chores around the house that aren’t exactly such a pleasure to take care of. So, if he wants to help you scrub the bathroom floor or if he insists in taking out the trash, then it’s crystal clear how he really feels about you.
6. He Considers You First
You will know a man is madly in love with you, if he’s always considering you first before everyone else, whenever he makes any plans. That means that he wants you to be happy and that he’s willing to give up even on the things he enjoys if he suspects that you won’t feel the same. So, consider yourself very lucky if your man thinks first on your happiness over his.
7. He Asks for Your Help
The fact that he always asks for your help when he’s doing something, no matter how small that things is, like when he’s looking for a gift or when he has to buy something for himself, means that he really values your opinion because he respects you and because you play such a big part in his life. So, be happy if he asks for your help or for your advice!
8. He Wants You to Meet His Loved Ones
A clear sign he’s head over heels for you is the fact that he will introduce you to all his loved ones. A man in love takes pride in having such a special lady by his side and he will want you to meet all his closest friends and family members. So, if he tells everyone about you, then it’s a clear sign of how much he actually loves you and of how important you really are to him.
9. He Tries to Find You the Perfect Gift
If you’ve noticed that your man has really tried to find you the perfect gift for your birthday, for your anniversary or that he even bought you a gift for no particular reason, you should definitely take it as a compliment. This shows that he’s not only an attentive listener, but he’s also thoughtful and willing to sacrifice his time and energy in order to find you the perfect gift.
Usually men have more subtle ways of showing their true feelings for you. I mentioned a few in this little article, but I’m sure that there are many more I forgot about. So, can you give me a hand and tell me if you know any other surprising ways your man shows his love for you? Please share your thoughts with us!