What are the secrets to a happy relationship? This is for the invested ladies (couples). You’ve put the time in and hard work for your happily ever after and are ready for all your fantasies of a perfect life of harmony and bliss to come into fruition. Well.... just in case it hasn’t been quite the way you imagined here’s a list of secrets to a happy relationship to keep from wanting to make a return on your investment (see what I did there? I’m impressed with myself).
1. EMBRACE YOUR CRAZY
Accept that you’re a bit crazy, maybe a little mean, or perhaps just a raging you know what. We all are from time to time and it’s okay because it makes life with us a bit more exciting. Accepting who you are is one of the top secrets to a happy relationship.
2. HE AIN’T EVER GONNA CHANGE HE JUST CAN’T HELP HIMSELF
Accept that after five years of him leaving the toilet seat up that this is your life - look then sit. Or whatever you’ve been waiting for him to not do or do, like dirty clothes actually make it to the hamper instead of right beside it on the floor, or how he doesn’t cover his mouth when he coughs like he has no home training, but I digress. You get what I am saying.
3. ) YES, YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE to BE in the MOOD for the GOOD GOOD
Good sex leads to good mood but also, a bad mood can lead to bad sex. You kinda do have to be in the mood, just saying’. Feel free to reference this article for validation if you should ever need the black and white evidence in the matter.
4. ) LOVE at FIRST SIGHT, NAW MORE like HOT at FIRST SIGHT
Physical attraction is still important, so no one can afford to just let themselves go. You may not want to hear it but it’s true. Love keeps him loyal but physical attraction keeps him interested if you know what I mean.
5. ) TAKE the LOSS and LOVE ANOTHER DAY
Last but not least, you’re not always right and he’s not always wrong, sometimes it’s a draw. Kiss, makeup, and love another day.