There are many different signs he is a keeper that you should watch out for, especially if you are having doubts! If your boyfriend puts you first, can handle you at your worst and can actually have a conversation about the future without cringing, then you've got to take a look at all of my signs he is a keeper, as they are all on here! Take a look below girls, if your boyfriend is topping the charts on your 'husband' list!
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1. He Puts You First
Does your man constantly put you first? Does he make choices based on you and what you are doing? Does he work around your schedule and really work to accommodate you? Does he even pick out all kinds of your favorite foods just to make sure that you have things to eat? Are you constantly on his mind, always? This is absolutely one of the top signs he is a keeper!
2. He's There for You
Is your guy there for you in all aspects of everything? Is he there for you when the times are tough and when you are having emotional problems? If your man is willing to drive from his house to yours at 3:00am, because you had a bad dream, he is absolutely a keeper, girls!
3. He Likes Your Quirks
All of us have quirks. Admit it. You have yours, I have mine and your boyfriend has his. If he appreciates your quirks and actually likes them, then that is actually a sign that he is a keeper! After all, who wouldn't want a guy that loves your quirks and loves every weird thing about you?
4. Affectionate without Shame
PDA is typically a hot button for most guys, but if your guy is all about the affection, no matter who is around, then he's definitely a keeper. That doesn't mean that you need to go around making out in front of your friends, but still – if he isn't shy to kiss or touch you in public, that's a sign!
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5. He's Very Kind
Is he generally kind to other people? Is he someone that would send a watch back if it got sent to him wrongly? Is he the type of guy that would help an older lady go grocery shopping just because? That's definitely a sign, girls! A sign that he is a keeper!
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6. Very Consistent
What about being stable? Is he super stable, totally consistent and he doesn't have a whole lot of ups and downs in his emotions? That's a sign, girls! There are so many girls out there that wish that their guy was super stable and consistent, so keep that in mind!
7. Talk of the Future
What about the future? Does he constantly talk about the future? Does he constantly mention marriage and even mention kids someday? Those are all of the signs pointing to him being a keeper. Trust me, it's rare for a guy to want to get married!
8. He Can Handle Your Emotions
In the words of our beautiful Marilyn Monroe: “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” Why would you expect any less? A guy that can handle every one of your mood swings and your insecurities deserves you!
Although guys can be confusing, there are tons of guys that are keepers! So girls, is your guy a keeper? Do you think that he's a keeper? What other signs are out there to prove that he's a keeper?
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believe: When i met My boyfriend his so perfect. His nice sweet help out n the house n full of surprises. He was my dream man But why I'm not happy? Need an advice
Samantha: 20 months of relationship, he stands me and my mistakes. He understands me and I feel comfortable talking to him about anything- he supports me. And even though he's not yet into the future thing he's in love with me and that's all that matters! Great post :)
Diana-Joy: My boyfriend is a keeper! <3 Playing basketball and video games together. He has been in my life since we were kids. :')
Georgette: My man is a keeper!!
Happy: Great article...however, I have to say that there are other "forms" of men that are keepers. My husband (of 6 years) is a wonderful man, and I love him with all my heart. He is definitely a keeper. However, he doesn't show affection openly. He is very private. He doesn't always put me first, but I can't always be first. We have two kids and a business to think about too... Having a man that is a keeper is having a man that is willing to provide for you and your family, having a man that loves you, (whether privately or openly) even with your faults and emotions, having a man that is willing to be a man...
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