Is your casual relationship turning into something serious? Sometimes it’s hard to tell. You don’t know if your relationship is truly changing or you’re only imagining it. These’re 7 signs that your casual relationship is becoming a serious relationship.
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1. He’s Started Calling You Baby
While some guys do drop these names into casual conversation, it’s rare. Most guys save pet names for their girlfriend or a girl that they’re at least very interested in. It may not be “baby” but some other pet name. Whatever the term of endearment is, it’s a sign. It says he’s getting serious about you.
2. He Spends a Lot of His Free Time with You
If a guy is into you then he wants to spend time with you. He may still go out and shoot some hoops with his friends but the majority of his time belongs to you. He loves hanging with you, no matter what you’re doing. You could be painting your nails and he’s happy to be nearby. This’s a sign that he wants something more than casual friendship or dating from you.
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3. You Text Daily
Do you text daily? If so then he may be moving toward something more serious with you. He wants a daily connection and that’s really sweet as long as it’s something you both want. If not then it’s a totally different situation. But if you want your relationship to move forward then all of these’re good signs.
4. He Knows Your Favorite Foods
If your guy knows your favorite foods and you know his then the two of you’re getting close. Yes, it could just be a close friendship. But if you’ve started dating and know this much about each other then your relationship is moving toward serious status. You may not have made that verbal commitment yet but it’s on the horizon. Enjoy each step of getting there!
5. He Wants You to Meet His Family
Yes, it’s possible that he just wants you to meet his family and it’s not getting serious between the two of you. But that’s not usually the case. If he’s taking you home to meet Mom then you’re in, girlfriend. My brother always said that not every girl is one you take home to meet the parents and I think that expresses how most men think. They only make the decision to introduce a girl to their family when they feel strong feelings for her. So take this as a sign things are turning serious.
6. He’s Flirted with the Subject of Commitment
Has your guy mentioned the possibility of a commitment? Maybe he made a joke about dating exclusively or a random comment. If so, then there’s meaning hidden there. He may be fishing to see how you react. He wants to know if you have an interest in a serious relationship.
7. Intuition Tells You It’s Headed That Way
Intuition can be a better indicator than any of the other signs we’ve talked about here. When things are getting serious you just feel it. You have this feeling that your relationship is deepening. Intuition can be a woman’s best friend. It’s a good guide in almost any situation you encounter in life. It’s important to note it’s not always right but it is the majority of the time.
These’re 7 signs that your relationship is going from casual into serious. Do you see any of them in your relationship? I’d love to hear from you!
Comments
Kacie: @Sasa trust your instincts girl! If you feel that way, it's time to back off cause nine times out of ten, you're right!
Joyce: Please, every guy does these now a days. It doesn't mean they want anything serious. Maybe to the exception of meeting the family. The rest are just basics
Jee16teen: Knowing yo favorites it’s nothing but a sign of respect are feelings coz that happens mostly when u are still dating
TieiaM: I'm so grateful that I've been happily married for almost 13 years. This stinks! I'd never allow myself a relationship like this!
Sasa: I think I have to agree with Bindi... I'm dating this guy at this present time and it seems that he has ulterior motives...
Kacie: Sorry but this list is a bit superficial, and like @Joyce said, most guys will do these things with no intentions of getting serious (more like getting into your pants lol). You'll know when things are getting serious when he wants you around his friends and family (which was mentioned in this article), when he values your "me time" and you his, when you both get to know each other on a deeper level (some convos may be uncomfortable to talk about, but the more you both open up, the more you'll trust and connect with each other), and when he respects your values and decisions and doesn't pressure you into things for self gratification!
Kacie: @robin make sure his actions line up with what he "says"
Jee16teen: @Patricia Yap if u text back to frequently it you too into it
Robin: He does keep saying he wants me and likes me a lot
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