While long distance relationships are by no means easy, it is still important to look out for the signs your long distance relationship is ending. In retrospect, the signs your long distance relationship is ending seem so clear. As much as we hate to face it, a good portion of long distance relationships don’t make it through. Here are some of the warning signs that yours might be among them.
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1. You No Longer Feel the Need to Talk
Of all of the red flags, a lack of communications is one of the biggest signs your long distance relationship is ending. Communication is key to any long distance relationship, and when you no longer feel the need to talk, it means you no longer feel the need to keep your relationship strong. You need to make communication a priority in your long distance relationship. If not, it is almost guaranteed that your relationship will not succeed.
2. You Catch Your Eye Wandering
When you are in a long distance relationship, it is always okay to look but not touch. But if you are taking it too far and longing to be with other partners, you may need to reevaluate your relationship's status. While us women have our needs, it is important to remember that we are committed to our partner. If you think you are spending too much time wondering what it would be like to be with another man, it might be one of the warning signs your long distance relationship is ending.
3. There is an Always Excuse
Like I said earlier, communication is key to a long distance relationship. If either of you are constantly making up an excuse to why you cannot talk, it might be a red flag. You can always carve out a little bit of your day to Skype or call your partner. Make sure you are not exaggerating how busy you are to get out of communicating.
4. You Are Focusing on the Negatives
There must be some reason you are in a long distance relationship. Some positives of your partner that you love so much you are willing to risk all of the negatives for them. If you find yourself focusing so much on all the negatives of either your partner or the long distance relationship, then maybe you are not willing to risk it anymore. Long distance relationships are incredibly hard, and it is not uncommon to notice the negatives. But if it is all you can think about for more than a month, that is one of the big signs your long distance relationship ending.
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5. You Avoid Problems
Because you get to choose when to talk to your partner, it is easy to avoid talking to them. You may avoid talking about your problems or communicating at all. Both are warning signs. A key part of maintaining any relationship is working through your problems. It is important to make sure that you don’t use long distance as an excuse to avoid your problems because it is so easy to stop any communication.
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6. There is No Talk of a Future
If you are in a long distance relationship, you must be dedicated towards a future, or else you wouldn’t put yourself through the tough times that come along with it. If you and your partner stop talking about what the future brings, how can you ever expect your long distance relationship to turn into a close relationship? You should not feel that your relationship has reached its peak when you two are apart.
7. You Are Always Frustrated
Trust me, I get how frustrating long distance relationships can be. But, if you find yourself constantly annoyed at your partner, frustrated at your relationship, or even frustrated at yourself, it may be one of the signs that your long distance relationship is ending. The whole point of a relationship is to make you happy. If your long distance relationship makes you constantly angry, why remain in it?
8. No Emotion behind It
Emotion is something that we all feel, but if you aren't experiencing it in your current relationship (besides the frustration of course!) why continue to keep it up? Emotions and love are what a relationship should be all about.
9. Too Much Effort to Make an Effort
When making a phone call, connecting on the internet or even just trying to pry open your partner's emotions is too much effort on your part, it's really time for you to end the relationship.
Long distance relationships are not easy. They require time, dedication, and love. But if you can make it through it for the person you love, they are worth it. Not all long distance relationships make it, though. And these warning signs that your long distance relationship is ending are important to watch out for. What are some other warning signs? What are some keys to maintaining a long distance relationship?
This article was written in collaboration with editor Heather Jensen.
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pauline: Me and my boyfriend have know each other for about 4 years but we never saw each other. We're only teens. He's 14 and I'm 13. Were about 156 thousand miles apart but we never gave up on talking with each other even if it's kinda hard for us to talk because of our time. Lately, we haven't been talking anymore and my friends are always telling me to breakup with him and the problem is I still love him but I don't know if he still loves my too because we barely talk to each other lately. Should I still have to stay with him or end our relationship already?
Crystal: There is always an excuse*
JuliaG26: 7 hours between state and estonia! Been together an year and half and we both reminds ourselves to keep move on and don't pressure ourselves. It works if both shares good confidence and be strong for each others :)
imelizious: Shit. Those signs are all mine. But im affraid of losing him ,im afraid being more lonely without him, though now i am lonely enough with him. N he's such a nice guy ,i dont have the guts to break him up. Cz i know i'l screw his life if i did it. i dont know what to do..
Francoise: I'm 23, I'd gotten out of a really long relationship and really didn't want to start anything serious until someone got out of my friendZone (yay lol) and I started dating my boyfriend Alan two months before we were shipped off to seperate countries to study, this was 4 years ago and we are stronger than ever now, the breaking point for us was when my dad passed away and Alan obviously wasn't physically there for me, I was alone in a different country something tragic had happened and I expected him to be with me which he couldn't be, I held that against him for a long time and we broke up over it, Im so grateful he never gave up on me and persisted :) which is hard considering there's little one can do once blocked on all social sites , but I finally realised that I had to be realistic and if he could have been there for me he would have and actually he was giving me morale support the entire time I was being a straight up monster, my advice would be to understand what situation you're in, accept the fact you may not spend your anniversary or a valentines day or a New Years kiss with this person for a long time (or in mine and Alan's case still not done any of those in four full years) and you shouldnt take it out on your partner. we do not facetime everyday as its impractical but we darn well text everyday,and try to find ways around the fact that conversations do run dry... Alan and I are the type of people that talk during movies.. So when there's nothing to say we pop in the same movie and chatter away at the silly characters as we would on a normal movie night (minus the constant sushing from other movie watchers) and as for sex ofcourse I miss it, but then again there's strip poker on FaceTime, sextexts phonesex, and Alan sends me a kinky outfit once in a while to remind me he still has the hots for me... I guess it helps when both partners make it clear they're both into this for the long haul. It's not the ideal relationship but it's what we've got and for now that's alright. 2 more years and we'll be together for good ^_^ few
Sarah: I can't totally relate to this. My boyfriend and I just broke up, and we had a 3 hour time difference. All the signs were there too...
Waddzz: Great article.It is a complete reflection of what im going through right now with my boyfriend.im trying so hard not to break down abt this
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