15 Signs You're Acting like a Crazy Girl ...

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15 Signs You're Acting like a Crazy Girl ...
15 Signs You're Acting like a Crazy Girl ...

The first thing every girl should know about a guy is that they are born to hunt and that they can sense when a girl is acting crazy. Boys love to chase and accomplish things, especially women. When we stop playing hard to get, and start acting like a needy child, boys lose all interest in us! That's why when a girl is acting crazy, most guys will just take off. So ladies, do you know when a girl is acting crazy? Or when you are acting crazy? Here's a list of the top 15 signs to tell if you've lost your cool, and gained some crazy!

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1

Constantly Calling and Texting a Guy

Having to text a guy first, shame on him; having to text a guy four times, shame on you. Ladies, when you text a guy four times in a row and he hasn't texted you back, this is absolutely one of the signs that you're acting crazy! A lot of guys are unsure if you are into them or not so it's a way to let him know you're approachable, but having to text him more times than that just screams needy. If he isn't making the effort to contact you first, or even respond to you at all, he's most likely not interested or scared of you.

2

Asking Every Person if "He's into You"

Yes, we all love to tell stories of that cute boy we hung out with or are talking to. What else are girlfriends for? But constantly having to ask other people if he's into you should show you a sign that you're acting crazy. When someone is into us we know it. Having to tell the same story over twenty times to people makes you look a little nuts. Girls, if he is into you, you'll know it, no need to keep asking! This is totally one of the things girls do when they are a little nutty!

3

Physical and Cyber Stalking

There is a difference between checking out your crush online, and spending 2 hours learning everything about him before getting to know him in person. One of the signs a girl is acting crazy is stalking him on Facebook, Twitter and Tumblr -- all night long! With all of the different ways to see where your crush is hanging out, it's easy to stalk him, but that can be a little creepy. Just play it cool, ladies!

4

Always Available for Him

Another sign a girl is crazy is that she is constantly available to him, whenever he asks to do anything. Make your crush wait a bit before you answer the phone, or try a different day if he asks you out. You don't want him to think that your schedule is always clear!

5

Emotionally Invested Too Soon

Oh ladies, absolutely one of the biggest signs a girl is crazy is when they instantly become in love with any guy that shows them attention. Keep yourself a little more guarded, a little more reserved and don't become emotionally invested right away. It'll be better in the long run, ladies!

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It's totally understandable to feel a spark and get excited, but treating every guy like he's the one after just one date can set you up for a whirlwind of unnecessary drama. Trust me, it's not a race to the altar! Take the time to get to truly know someone—flaws and all—before diving headfirst into emotional commitment. This isn't just about protecting your heart, but also about respecting the natural pace of a healthy relationship. So, keep it cool, take it slow, and remember, the right guy will appreciate getting to know the real you—not just the love-struck version.

6

Personality Change

When you're dating a guy, you never want to morph into someone completely different. Ladies, he likes you for a reason, why would you need to change? Just because he likes cars and trucks doesn't mean you have to too! Have your own likes, dislikes and opinions!

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Remember, embrace your individuality! There's nothing wrong with sharing interests, but there's a fine line between taking an interest and losing yourself. If you find yourself pretending to adore something just to please him, pause and reflect. Relationships are about balance, and it's absolutely okay to have your own hobbies and passions. Diversity can spice things up, so keep the essence of who you are. After all, a genuine connection is built on authenticity - not on a persona you've created to win his heart.

7

Checking Your Phone Every Five Seconds

Oh the phone, I actually do this a lot now and I've been in a relationship for a while! Checking your phone constantly to see if he has called or texted is another sign a girl is acting crazy. Just calm down, no need to constantly check your phone!

8

Pet Project

As someone's girlfriend, it's easy to want to help out your man. Maybe he could use some help getting a haircut that better suits him or he could benefit from more current apparel. Either way, if he asks for help or is open to help, you're good to go. Other than that, no one wants a makeover forced upon them or told that that they need to change. This behavior is a huge turn off and a sure sign of a crazy girl!

9

Putting Him down

When it comes to correcting or offering some constructive criticism to anyone, it takes some finesse. Sometimes, girlfriends think they're doing their guy a favor by critiquing or embarrassing him but that's NOT the way to go. No one wants to be humiliated and put down and it's a good way to push your guy away.

10

Social Media Takeover

Another sure sign of a crazy girl is taking over your guy's social media. Posting all over his Facebook wall, constantly tweeting him, posting a bunch of photos on Instagram and tagging him are too much. It's one thing if it's reciprocal, but a crazy girl will relentlessly post her undying feelings online.

11

Jealousy

Jealousy isn't necessarily at the top of every guy's list of desirable traits in women, so it shouldn't come as a surprise that it's a common trait of a crazy girl. Constantly checking his clothes, asking your friend to hit on him to test his loyalty or looking for signs of cheating aren't the ways to win his heart.

12

Liar Liar

Lying is bad news in any situation but it's a huge red flag when you start lying to the person you're dating. It can start with little things that seem innocent enough but it can easily turn into telling more lies and covering up with bigger lies that can escalate to ridiculous levels. Don't be that girl, just be honest.

13

Dream or Nightmare?

I think we've all had those crazy dreams where we woke up wondering if our dream was real or not. But, if you have a dream where your significant other cheated or was with another woman and you get angry at him and don't let it go, it's a little crazy! It's one thing to mention it to him but holding a dream against him is unfair.

14

You Break His Stuff

Whether it's one time or more, breaking someone's things is not cool. No matter how angry or upset you get, destroying someone's prized possession or vandalizing their property is just plain crazy.

15

You Contact His Ex or New Girlfriend

While we're all curious about exes and new girlfriends of people we've dated, there is a fine line between being curious and harassing them. Usually, there is absolutely no need to be in contact with these people so contacting or keeping track of them is a no-no!

We all know what it's like to have those crazy butterflies that make you think, dream, and breathe only about that crush you have. If you're going to act like a crazy girl, the best way to do it is in hiding because of course there is a little crazy in all of us. Remember to play it cool, stick to being yourself, and remember you're more than enough for any guy. What other ways have you found yourself acting a little nuts?

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This conversation led to conversation receipts from both parties confirming everything. Trust your gut. And it was a week before my Birthday. Get your tea to go.

If a guy keeps sending mixed signals, and also he is friendly one day then the next he is not what does this possibly mean?

i too have some serious issue

I must admit that I feel a little silly about commenting on one of these... But an impartial third party would definitely help. I am a high school/college student with a little bit of dating under my belt. I haven't dated in two years, though- my last relationship ended in an absolutely horrid manner and I have been reluctant to trust anybody since. He is a college freshman (a complete nerd, like me) with absolutely no dating under his belt. We met at work in September and I quickly developed feelings for him. This was a surprise for me. So, anyways... We started going to movies and stuff (in groups and alone), but I always initiated these outings. As he went to high school with my friend, I knew quite a bit of his background and assumed it was because he was shy with girls. So, last Friday night I revealed to him (using a flip book) that I "was wondering if he go on a date with me?") He smiled the entire time I presented the flip book, and said that he "would love to go on a date with me." He confirmed that it would be his first. (I FEEL LIKE I'M WRITING A BOOK FOR YOU GUYS- please be patient with me). So we arranged to go to Thor on Sunday at 7. We're both comic nuts. We talked in the parking lot for around 30 minutes after the movie and he asked if he could kiss me. And I, of course, said yes. So we kissed once. It was his first kiss. It was chaste. But super sweet. Afterwards, I texted him. I told him I had an amazing time and he said that there would be a second date. But when I texted him on Thursday, asking him if he would be able to do something over the weekend, he didn't even respond. I mean, I wouldn't have been angry had he said no. But it does bother me that he doesn't seem to deem me worthy of a response. And on Friday, at work, he treated me in the same way he always does (which isn't bad) but didn't even seem to acknowledge that I had sent the message or even that the date had even occurred. I really don't want to seem overly clingy.... But I have never put my heart out on the line like I did before... And to be honest, I kind of regret it because I now feel ridiculously vulnerable. I keep thinking it could be because of my body (I'm 5'6 and weigh 171 pounds, so I'm kind of fat) and he's ridiculously skinny (he's probably 5'10 and he once told me he weighs 170)... But anyways, we don't look that awkward together. I mean, I'm losing weight and since he's taller than me, I don't look like a giant next to him. I've rambled long enough. To the point- Has he already lost interest? Was he never interested? I know you haven't met him, but... I tried to be as thorough as possible. PS- please don't sugarcoat it. If the information that I have given indicates that he doesn't want me, then please tell me.

I really liked/like this guy, but he forgot about me/stood me up on a date 2 times! He is always really busy and works! The first time he made it up to me the next day and took me on a date I saw pictures he went to the club the night he forgot about me. He asked me on a date again

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