Signs ๐Ÿ’Ÿโ˜ฎ๏ธ You Aren't Really ๐Ÿ˜• in Love โค๏ธ like You Thought ...

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So youโ€™re in love. But are you? Really? Ask anyone and their definition of love will be different, but everyone will certainly recognize it when it hits them. The thing about love, however, is that no matter which way you define it for yourself, it can trick you. Your definition might be flawed or youโ€™re desperate for it, so you misinterpret what youโ€™re feeling. Iโ€™ve got some signs youโ€™re not really in love you might need to consider.

1. It is Always about You?

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Self-absorbed people and vain people have a lot of trouble loving another person. They may feel a lot of affection for another person, and may even feel that the other person is their โ€œone,โ€ but they find it hard to be in love with somebody. When you are in love, you put the other person before yourself. You would take a bullet for that person and give them your lungs because they take your breath away. If you are self-absorbed or self-obsessed, you are probably not in love.

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RhondaJames
Awesome read
Kailee
Get over the picture gurls...sometimes I read comments and think someone should put a muzzle on the young in's, grow up. Great article, valid points, awesome yet again @Neecey
Roxane van Konkelenberg
Kinda upset they used a picture of Zoรซ and Alfie for a post like this one cause they are perfect together!
Megan
I think too totally self-absorbed people can make it work. Just look at Kim Kardashian & Kanye West-BOTH HUGE EGOMANIACS! But that's my usual jaundiced view on celebrity marriages.
ToriJeanne
I actually really disagree with this. I kissed another guy once. My parents split up and kicked me out and I had just had a miscarriage, I had been smoking pot, and I drank too much. And situational d...
Hayley
Zoรซ & Alfie!
Jeanette
Like always Neecey your posts are a great read - thanks ๐Ÿ˜˜
Rebecca
Point on!!!
Jassie Misteek
Why the picture of Zoรซ and Alfie though lol?
Lovely
This is probably one of the best posts I've read on this website
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