7 Things You Should Be Doing to Attract a Guy ...

Grabbing a guy's attention is actually easier than you think. Guest contributor Rosie Maxwell shares some of her tips on how to attract a guy. Thanks Rosie!

Girls are always on the mission to become perfect for a guy. However in order to get a guy you don't have to change yourself! Every girl already possesses amazing qualities and abilities. You just have to know how to express yourself and use them right!

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Don't Be Fake

Yeah, Yeah. I know you've heard this before, but that just means it is that important! Don't pretend to be someone you aren't! What if you actually end up dating this guy? Don't you think he will realize that your desire for football magically disappeared or wonder why your obsession with his favorite singer isn't actually an obsession but a clear hatred?

Show off Your Smarts

Don't give a guy the impression that you are an idiot. I honestly don't know where this came from, but whoever came up with this is crazy. Let the guy know you have a brain! Sure that doesn't mean you start throwing vocabulary words at him, but at least show him that you aren't a bubblegum popping ditz.

Ask Him out

What easier solution than to just ask the guy out? The worst he can say is no, right?

Smile!

Guys are extremely attracted to a girl's smile. It warms up your face and makes you seem approachable. Next time you're around a guy you want to talk to, wipe the stoic expression off your face and flash your pearly whites to let him know you are interested.

Confidence, Confidence, Confidence!

Walk around with your head held high girl! Every guy loves a girl with a little confidence!

Be Presentable

Try to clean yourself up in the morning. That doesn't mean throw on your highest pair of heels with your sexiest dress, it just means brush your hair in the morning, swipe on a layer of mascara and put on a pair of jeans instead of sweats. Guys like it when a girl at least attempts to be presentable. Of course you can still wear your scrub clothes, but just not everyday.. ;)

Smell Good

I know this may sound weird but guys LOVE the way a girl smells, from her hair to the slight sheen of perfume. Before you leave the house put a dab of your favorite perfume on your wrist and around your neck to give yourself a nice scent. If your perfume is the type to wear off after a couple hours make sure to carry a bottle with you if you really need it. One of my favorite things to do is spray some on my brush and run it through my hair so my hair can smell delicious too!

Hopefully these tips helped you out a little bit. Of course you don't have to follow all of these but try and pick one or two to try out and watch the guys come flocking. Always remember don't change yourself for a guy, you are perfect just the way you are!

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Let me share a secret with you ladies, something I learned only from experience, and experience can be a harsh but ultimately the best teacher: guys want YOU to ask them out...they do! Okay, there will always be Neanderthals that think a man's prerogative is to drag his woman back to the cave by her hair. But men HAVE evolved over the last few decades. Yes, they really do appreciate your intelligence, confidence, your personality. In fact, they can sometimes feel overwhelmed by those positive traits because they feel they can't measure up in your eyes. I cannot tell you how many times I have had a man tell me, I want HER to ask me! I have taken the initiative, finally, when I realized, literally, that I hd nothing to lose and everything to gain by just asking a guy out. Have some of them said no? Surprisingly, and this is the god's honest truth, only a very few have actually said no. Not every date was perfect, a couple were awkward, but I assure you, you really have nothing to lose. Guys have said, flat out, that they were so pleasantly surprised that I asked them. Almost every guy I have asked out has said, with amazement, "you are the first woman who has ever asked me out!". Why do you think they come on to you, sometimes way to strong, or with a cheesy line, that makes you want to gag? Because they are stumbling and fumbling to find the best way to introduce themselves to you in a way that will either guarantee a yes, or won't leave their egos bruised if you say no. I assure you, any guy who thinks less of you because YOU asked him out, or who runs back to tell his small-brained buds that he turned you down, isn't worth your time or effort anyway. And do you know what is really great about asking a guy out first? You don't need a line! All you have to do is make the suggestion I have seen men of steel turn to mush as soon as I've said "hey, would you like to go see the new Bond movie?" Or, "I was just heading to Starbucks, wanna get coffee?" I am NOT saying it's easy! But I am saying it's worth it it

I like point 3 but I guess I could never come up to a guy whom I like & ask him out;) idk why

So here is the thing, near my house there's a cinema, and I think that one of the men who sells pop corn is very handsome, but I haven't talked to him (you know just can you give me pop corn...) and I think he thinks I'm pretty but I'm not really sure, how can I know if he likes me? P.s. I go to that cinema a LOT, like every week What can I do for catching his attention? How can I know if he likes me? How can I make him ask me out?

And if none of these work, should you just move on?

Ask me out? Easy for you to say...then u added confidence ugh

I dont have the confidence,i cant even talk to him like a normal person but the rest i can kinda handle

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