Most girls know that there are a lot of things to be done while they are waiting for their boyfriend to pay them a visit. I’m sure you want to make a good impression, so try not to neglect these little things. Pay attention to the details so that everything can be just perfect. I’m also sure that you would like to look as attractive as you can when they come over, so keep in mind these next self-grooming and general steps on how to appear your sexiest when they arrive at your doorstep. Here are 7 important things you should do before your boyfriend comes over:
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1. Give Yourself Plenty of Time to Get Ready
One of the most important things you should do before your boyfriend comes over is to make sure that you give yourself plenty of time to get ready. This way, you won’t have to rush and you won’t forget about any important things that you should do so that everything can be just perfect. Also, make sure that you give yourself some time to relax before they arrive, so you won’t look tired.
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To ensure you're both comfortable and confident, start by picking out an outfit that makes you feel fabulous. Accessorize to add that special touch, but remember, less is often more. Take your time with hair and makeup, ensuring they complement your chosen look without overshadowing it. Prepare a playlist with tunes that both of you love to set the mood. Lastly, check the mirror, smile, and take a deep breath – you're ready to enjoy a wonderful evening.
Oh, I remember being super nervous too! Just make sure your place is tidy, put on something comfy yet cute, and don't forget to relax. He’s coming over to see you, not to inspect your home. Enjoy the moment!
Honestly, go for something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. A cute pair of jeans and a nice top usually does the trick. If it's a more relaxed hangout, even loungewear can be adorable!
It totally depends on what you both enjoy! You could cook a meal together, watch a movie, play some games, or even just have a cozy chat. It's all about enjoying each other’s company.
Definitely make sure your space is clean and inviting. Light a nice candle for some aroma, maybe have some snacks ready, and create a cozy atmosphere. Little touches can make a big difference!
Firstly, take a deep breath! It’s natural to feel a bit nervous. Try to focus on the fact that he's coming over because he wants to spend time with you. Be yourself and remember to have fun!
2. Shower
Even if you are in a hurry, make sure that you shower (or if you prefer baths, you could take a short and relaxing bath) before your boyfriend comes over. It’s really important to be clean since every guy appreciates a woman with good hygiene. Also, your hair will look nicer and your skin will be softer and it will smell wonderful. Don’t forget to shave and afterward, apply some lotion all over your body and your skin will feel smoother and it will smell amazing.
Oh, I remember being super nervous too! Just make sure your place is tidy, put on something comfy yet cute, and don't forget to relax. He’s coming over to see you, not to inspect your home. Enjoy the moment!
Honestly, go for something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. A cute pair of jeans and a nice top usually does the trick. If it's a more relaxed hangout, even loungewear can be adorable!
It totally depends on what you both enjoy! You could cook a meal together, watch a movie, play some games, or even just have a cozy chat. It's all about enjoying each other’s company.
Definitely make sure your space is clean and inviting. Light a nice candle for some aroma, maybe have some snacks ready, and create a cozy atmosphere. Little touches can make a big difference!
Firstly, take a deep breath! It’s natural to feel a bit nervous. Try to focus on the fact that he's coming over because he wants to spend time with you. Be yourself and remember to have fun!
3. Find Something to Wear
After you shower, make sure that you dry your hair and then try to find something to wear, something body-flattering that you will look good in. Just try to remember if they complimented you for a specific outfit in the past and wear something similar or even the same one.
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Once you're freshened up, stand before your closet with confidence. Think about colors that he adores on you, or maybe a cut that flatters your shape and makes you feel fabulous. Whether it’s that little black dress he couldn't stop praising or the cozy yet cute sweater that makes you feel effortlessly chic, choose an outfit that sparkles the romance. Remember, you want to feel comfortable yet captivating so that you can move freely and cuddle up without a second thought. Your attire sets the mood, so let it whisper elegance with comfort.
Oh, I remember being super nervous too! Just make sure your place is tidy, put on something comfy yet cute, and don't forget to relax. He’s coming over to see you, not to inspect your home. Enjoy the moment!
Honestly, go for something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. A cute pair of jeans and a nice top usually does the trick. If it's a more relaxed hangout, even loungewear can be adorable!
It totally depends on what you both enjoy! You could cook a meal together, watch a movie, play some games, or even just have a cozy chat. It's all about enjoying each other’s company.
Definitely make sure your space is clean and inviting. Light a nice candle for some aroma, maybe have some snacks ready, and create a cozy atmosphere. Little touches can make a big difference!
Firstly, take a deep breath! It’s natural to feel a bit nervous. Try to focus on the fact that he's coming over because he wants to spend time with you. Be yourself and remember to have fun!
4. Do Your Finger- and Toenails
After you find that perfect outfit, make sure that you paint your finger- and your toenails with a nail polish that matches the clothes you are wearing. You could also try to remember if your guy prefers a certain color and use that. Just try to have patience and wait for your nails to dry to avoid smudging.
Oh, I remember being super nervous too! Just make sure your place is tidy, put on something comfy yet cute, and don't forget to relax. He’s coming over to see you, not to inspect your home. Enjoy the moment!
Honestly, go for something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. A cute pair of jeans and a nice top usually does the trick. If it's a more relaxed hangout, even loungewear can be adorable!
It totally depends on what you both enjoy! You could cook a meal together, watch a movie, play some games, or even just have a cozy chat. It's all about enjoying each other’s company.
Definitely make sure your space is clean and inviting. Light a nice candle for some aroma, maybe have some snacks ready, and create a cozy atmosphere. Little touches can make a big difference!
Firstly, take a deep breath! It’s natural to feel a bit nervous. Try to focus on the fact that he's coming over because he wants to spend time with you. Be yourself and remember to have fun!
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5. Style Your Hair
Some girls like to style their hair while it’s still wet, but you can do it after you get dressed too. Just do something that you feel looks the best and something that you know that he likes on you. Don’t try something new because if it doesn’t come out right, you might not have enough time to wash your hair and start all over again.
Oh, I remember being super nervous too! Just make sure your place is tidy, put on something comfy yet cute, and don't forget to relax. He’s coming over to see you, not to inspect your home. Enjoy the moment!
Honestly, go for something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. A cute pair of jeans and a nice top usually does the trick. If it's a more relaxed hangout, even loungewear can be adorable!
It totally depends on what you both enjoy! You could cook a meal together, watch a movie, play some games, or even just have a cozy chat. It's all about enjoying each other’s company.
Definitely make sure your space is clean and inviting. Light a nice candle for some aroma, maybe have some snacks ready, and create a cozy atmosphere. Little touches can make a big difference!
Firstly, take a deep breath! It’s natural to feel a bit nervous. Try to focus on the fact that he's coming over because he wants to spend time with you. Be yourself and remember to have fun!
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6. Apply Make-up
Of course, you should do this only if you like to wear make-up. Do your make-up however you feel most attractive. Don’t try something new because you might not have enough time to remove it and do it again if you don’t like it. Also, don’t forget to brush your teeth or to put on your favorite perfume.
Oh, I remember being super nervous too! Just make sure your place is tidy, put on something comfy yet cute, and don't forget to relax. He’s coming over to see you, not to inspect your home. Enjoy the moment!
Honestly, go for something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. A cute pair of jeans and a nice top usually does the trick. If it's a more relaxed hangout, even loungewear can be adorable!
It totally depends on what you both enjoy! You could cook a meal together, watch a movie, play some games, or even just have a cozy chat. It's all about enjoying each other’s company.
Definitely make sure your space is clean and inviting. Light a nice candle for some aroma, maybe have some snacks ready, and create a cozy atmosphere. Little touches can make a big difference!
Firstly, take a deep breath! It’s natural to feel a bit nervous. Try to focus on the fact that he's coming over because he wants to spend time with you. Be yourself and remember to have fun!
7. Make Sure Your House is Clean
Well, you should do this before you start preparing for your actual stay-at-home date. Even if you don’t like cleaning so much, this is a must if you want to make a good impression. Try lighting some scented candles 45 minutes – 1 hour before they come over so your house will smell lovely.
There are a lot of things you should do before your boyfriend comes over. I just mentioned a few in this little article, but I’m sure that there are many more I could add to this list. What other things should a girl do before her boyfriend comes over? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
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Comments
Sam: This is a silly and unnecessary 'article'.
Shaivya: Honestly I feel like girls should do this anyways just to pamper themselves and not for some guy. And I agree with the comments that no girl should be obligated to do something like this just for her boyfriend.
Annabelle: I agree with alexxis
Snarky: Huh? This isn't in the humor section?Ladies- make sure to bake him a cake while you're at it. Oh, and don't read any books or keep up with the news cause men prefer us to be dumb.
elxzxbxthpxrtxr: This is a cute article, don't listen to all the hate. However, no girl should feel obligated to do anything for a guy. That being said, this is what I do before my boyfriend comes over. But I do it for me, because I want to not because I have to to impress him or anything. That's the issue for this article, but it's a topic flaw, not a writing style flaw or anything.
Courtney: I agree with both sides. You should not always feel under pressure to look a certain way for your boyfriend; especially if this is someone you want to have a future with. He should be able o see you on your "not so sexy" days like wearing some sweats or hair not done. But of course still continue to show him that you do take pride in the way you look. You should mean the world to him either way.💞
Qs: PS this article is bullshit
Sherry: Oh, it just occurred to me, you'd better put your cat outside, too. Heaven forbid your furry friend should decide to poop in the litter box just before or (gasp!) after boyfriend arrives. This would spoil the "just perfect" ambiance for sure. Did anyone click the link to the wikihow source of this article? This reads like a handbook for a Geisha, and it might even insult a Geisha.
Kaillee: Look good for yourself not for anyone else, be true to yourself xo
_holly_xx: Everyone's losing their shit over this? It's an article, not the rules of life.
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