If you are somebody who is comfortable with your body and your sexuality, then it is highly likely that you are going to want to experiment with other positions and types of sex than just plain old missionary! One of these such types is anal sex. Anal sex can be great for both the giver and the receiver in the situation, but you definitely need to make sure that you are in sync and on the same page. Here are some things you should know before you have anal sex.
It couldn’t be more important to try and relax when you are trying to have anal sex for the first time. The issue of contracting muscles is much more prevalent compared to vaginal intercourse, so the more relaxed and ‘loose’ your body can be, the more pleasurable and painless the experience will be.
You are going to need a lot of lube, and I mean a lot! When it comes to lubrication and anal sex, there is no such thing as too much. You want to make things a wet and slippery as possible so that parts can slide into other parts with much less effort and stress. This goes for everything you are using too, from fingers to toys and your own butt, not just the penis going into it!
It is vital that you communicate well with your partner to ensure a respectful and successful experience. He is going to be eager to find out what it feels like, but you have to make sure that you tell him which pace you are comfortable and exactly when you are ready to go further. Going quiet and waiting for it to be over is the worst thing that you could do.
4. Go Slow
Going slow is the key to having a good time. If you’re at the point where you want to try anal, it might be fair to suggest that your vagina has become a pro at getting it on, so you might have forgotten just how delicate it can be to penetrate an orifice for the first time! Take it super slow, and always at your preferred pace rather than his.
Listen, you’re about to do some hot and heavy experimentation in the area that literally removes waste from your body, so it makes complete sense to be aware of your hygiene levels. Make sure you take a nice long shower beforehand, thoroughly cleaning all of the areas that are going to come into play. It’s safe to say that nothing kills a sexy mood quite like an unclean butthole!
6. Feels Different
Be aware that it is going to feel very different from vaginal sex. Don’t assume that something is wrong just because the sensations aren’t what you are used to. If you aren’t in pain, then just let yourself go and enjoy the experience.