9 Things You Should Never Change about Yourself for a Man ...


I think we can agree that there are some things you should never change about yourself. As smart as we might be, sometimes we'll meet someone we want to be with so much that we find ourselves doing things we never thought we would. Don't get me wrong; this isn't always a bad thing. I can think of all sorts of things in our lives-habits, relationships, bad '80s hairstyles-that SHOULD be changed, but we just need a little “push.” If he's that “push,” fine. It's just that there are some things you should never change about yourself to hold onto a man. If you think this doesn't happen, think again. Here are a few examples.

1. Your Values

These are probably the most important things you should never change about yourself for a man. For instance, does he pressure you to have sex when you want to wait until you're married? That was the case with me. Does he think women should be “barefoot and pregnant” while you want a career? Is he bothered by your relationships with your family? If he's not willing to accept these basic things about you, toss him and find someone who will.

Your Dreams


Same here jess. Had to tone down my personality to make him happy. It was his issues not mine. These type of men make you feel responsible for their own issues. It's all about taking ownership for what is yours and theirs.
My ex changed me or I did the changes to keep him as loved me so much. End result he finished it anyway. I become depressed as I lost my true self and my own values. I had to give up male friends as h...
Love this. My ex used to try make me change how I dressed and tone down my personality. My current boyfriend encourages me to be me =)
Nazmin Ala
I loved this article, seems like someone has spoken the words I wanted to say!!! Thanks
I totally agree with this!
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